If you hate someone its not because of race , skin colour or religion. Ok I hate this girl because she just used to stick to me everytime when I used to talk to her and she just speaks in between the conversation ( well she did that just once) but sticking is the normal usual thing she do . my sister is with her in fashion and i wanted to move to another fashion period because of her that just happened and I didn't do anything for it. She just comes to table wherever my friends are sitting ( they are also her friends but not really close ones). In which chair she sits i just remove that chair and take another chair and once my sister was showing the video to her on our(me and my sister share it) cell , the cell was in her hands so when she came back to me , i just rubbed the cell with her jacket. This is not normal but what should i do?. Am I mentally sick?.
2007-02-27 14:07:04 · 10 answers · asked by dishakr 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Ok i really don't pay any attention to this girl,
I don't make any comments about her . Infact my work is not suffering because of her . Do i really do something bad to this girl ? she is so sticky when we used to talk i made an excuse that i have to go to washroom because i didn't want to go with her , she said that she can come into the washroom and wait for me , now how sick is that?PLEASE HELP.
2007-02-27 14:15:01 · update #1
I think what you are saying is that you dislike this person. She may be very lonely and need you for a friend. Stop and ask yourself why she is trying to attach herself to you. She may have a real need. Be nice to her and learn that we are never to hate anyone. We may not like their behavior, but to hate is wrong. If you find that kindness doesn't work, then remove yourself from her presence when you can. Good luck.
2007-03-05 19:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hate President Bush, because I dont understand that the President of a democratic nation is elected by the people (twice in this case), and therefore represents them rather than representing a despotic system of arbitary power-by-
force such as has existed in many places throughout history. Hating him is therefore hating the American people and the AMerican system that has produced unprecedented prosperity, and attracting multitudes (in the case of the Spanish).
Hating him shows that I hate the country I am in, and the people who give me great opportunities I will find nowhere else in the world. Hating him (as if it's a choice of commodities or advertisements that I am constantly devouring) is an obscenity that deseves deportation or worse. And it will be worse, if it keeps up.
2007-03-06 13:00:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not 'hate' anyone. I believe hate is too strong of a word to describe anything or anyone. At the most, I think it is okay for someone to dislike another person. Because dislike does not have the same strong meaning as hate.
As for your situation. Confront the problem or find ways of ignoring it if the situation gets worse. The best kind of psycology is self-psycology.
2007-02-27 14:17:23 · answer #3 · answered by A.R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha! chill out a bit buddy... she proberbly likes you. what are you scared of? hate is a strong word, but if you are really annoyed by her , let her know, be more direct-
take it as a compliment, be a little kinder, she proberbly only has good intentions and thinks your a good person.. which you really are!~
your not mentally sick but you do seem a little immature, put things in perspective a little- do you think your behaviour is encouraging it... ?
2007-03-04 22:51:57 · answer #4 · answered by chick1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is people I highly dislike but not hate. I view hate as wish death upon, I personally dont feel that way about anyone regardless of what they have done
2007-02-27 14:15:06 · answer #5 · answered by Kelly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! none of the above answers have the direct impact on your Q & A solutions? lol...all beautiful words about problem solving lol..
Nah, u simply can't express yourself.
Tell her straight on her face "Leave me alone!" & Tell yourself "Stop behaving Oddie the ODd!"
2007-02-27 14:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you too speak in conversation and I bet you`re sticky to at least someone you know... are you sure you don`t hate yourself and you`re trying to make us think that you hate that girl? That`s my idea.
2007-03-06 09:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think the word hate,should be removed from the dictionaryand replaced with severely dislike,i hate no on,but there are people i dislike.
2007-03-05 17:59:16 · answer #8 · answered by fatdadslim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HATE is a pretty strong word...She sounds very rude...remember two wrongs do not make a right...
2007-03-06 07:32:04 · answer #9 · answered by Juliette 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are spending a lot of energy on this. What is it getting you?
2007-02-27 14:15:28 · answer #10 · answered by Alicia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋