should i be worried... she always asks... oh is josh gunna be there?! and if i say no, she is like, well i dont really feel like going... and when me and him have talked on the phone he would ask if she is coming to, should i be worried?
2007-02-27 14:00:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Be worried! Why else would they ask about each other? Well asking isnt the big deal, but asking and not getting the answer you want, so then you decide you dont want to go period. Yea I would def be worried!
2007-02-27 14:07:14 · answer #1 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep an eye on the situation. It could be that she has a crush on your bro - but it could also be that she's uncomfortable around the rest of your family. When DH and I visit his extended family, there are certain members that I'm comfortable around, and others I'm not. If given a choice, I'd much rather stay home if none of the family members I'm friendly with are going to be there!!! If your bro is asking about her, it could be that she told him the family makes her uncomfortable, and he's just watching out for your wife. Same thing with my husband... some of my family he's friendly with, others he'd rather avoid.
I think keeping an eye on ANY opposite sex friendships is a good idea in a marriage though, even if he is your brother.
2007-02-27 22:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by ~StepfordWife~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think I would be. There is a reason that they are both asking, and I would find a way to figure out , Why, How , When, Where, What. Go with each one of these and answer them yourself., and then start to investigate.
2007-02-27 22:19:51 · answer #3 · answered by *queenfairy1*Antioch California 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All right so way are you worried I read your blog, you, and your wife are into an open marriage I believe I did read four some, well invite your brother, and his girl that should be fun for you!
2007-02-27 22:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has more in common to talk to with your brother and it makes her more relaxed and comfortable and it doesnt make her worry about being around your family. Maybe she is more on the spot when he isn't there and she is treated differently
2007-02-27 22:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds interesting, I would be worried. Seems like something is going on. I would be on alert.
2007-02-27 22:06:22 · answer #6 · answered by Tonya W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's got a little crush on Joshie-poo.
2007-02-27 22:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by restless_nymph 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's the only relative she can tolerate. I can sympathize.
2007-02-27 22:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Worried...Not sure...but I would keep my eyes peeled...
2007-02-27 22:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋