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Question

I AM 15 AND I DONT HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND EVEN IF I DID I FEEL IM TO YOUNG TO HAVE SEX SO I FINGER MYSELF. AND WHEN I DO AFTER A WHILE I FEEL SOMETHING COMING AND THEN I GO FASTER WITH MY FINGER AND FINALLY I TENSE AND GET THE GREATEST FEELING EVER. IS THIS A ORGASM. I THINK IT IS BUT IM NOT SURE.

ALSO I WAS WONDERING ABOUT ACTUALLY STICKING A VIBORATOR UP MY VAGINA. SINCE I NEVER HAD SEX I WILL PROBABLY POP MY CHERRY OR DO U HAVE TO GO A CERTAIN DEPTH TO HAVE THAT HAPPEN. AND WHEN IT DOES IT WILL BLEED RIGHT BUT FOR HOW LONG. IS IT EXTREMLY PAINFUL SINCE I AM QUITE TIGHT DOWN THERE. IM NOT SURE ABOUT ANYTHING. PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN. I AM GETTING TO WHERE I AM STARTING TO FEEL LIKE I NEED SEX. WHAT DOES IT FEEL LIKE TO BE HORNY. I THINK I AM ALL THE TIME EXSPECIALLY IF SOME ONE IS TAKING ABOUT SEX OR SOMETHING RELATED. PLEASE HELP!!!

Answer 1

Yes, that is what an orgasm feels like.
There is nothing wrong with giving yourself pleasure, babies do it. It's a natural instinct. Weather you bleed or not when your hymen breaks/tears depends on it's intactness. Sometimes young women can break/tear their hymen from vigorous exercise. Also using tampons can tear your hymen & what you're doing as well.
Climax/orgasm can come in a variety of different strengths. Just because you feel certain urges doesn't mean you have to have sex with a boy to fulfill yourself.
As you're learning & investigating your body & finding out what you like will be helpful when you finally have sex.
Sex is nothing to rush into. You have plenty of time to find a boyfriend. Just make sure when you do, he is someone that truly loves you (it's good to be friends first). :)

Answer 2

Yes you are having orgasms. They are wonderful arent' they? lol.

As for the vibrator, you can use them. It may be hard for you to get one though. Most adult stores that sell them make sure you're 18 to even enter. I would assume you could buy one at Spencer's Gifts at the mall though. I'm not sure if there's an age requirement there. If I were you I would start out slow and go for a small vibrator. Eventually work your way up to a bigger penis sized one. If you want to just buy a normal sized one then make sure you buy lube with it. It will make the penetration much smoother and easier and less painful. Clean it really good before you use it and after you use it all the time too so you don't get an infection. It will most likely pop your cherry. Some women do bleed, some don't. For your first time you can use the vibrator while you lay with a towel under you. That way if there's a lot of blood it will be easier to clean up. Some people feel pain when their cherry pops, some don't. It varies from person to person. The pain can be constant or just a little sharp prick and it's gone. Your vagina will take a few minutes to adjust to the vibrator since it's probably the largest thing you've stuck in there. Take your time and go slow. Make it pleasurable instead of fast and painful.

Now for the horniness. If you feel like you need sex and you get tingly when people talk about it or when it's all you can think about and you can't wait to go home and play with yourself....that's horniness. It's a little difficult to explain. I think it's one of those things you just know. I guess the best way to put it is you're sexually aroused, you desire sex, you're turned on. Some signs of horniness or arousal are that your breast may swell a little, your vagina gets wet, you get tingly in your downstairs, or your clitoris can swell or throb. Again...it varies from person to person.

You don't have to have sex with anyone to be pleased. Wait until you're ready for the emotional consequences for sex. As long as you can make yourself happy then you don't need a man. You're still young and you still have a lot to learn. Good luck and I hope I helped answer your questions with enough detail!

Answer 3

YEP that is an orgasm and isn't it amazing lol neways I'm 15 too and where i live Spenser's is aloud to sell exotic items to minors idk if that's the same in every state, i have a boyfriend we have been together for just about a year he is a few years older than me not much but a few years and he understands that i don't feel ready to have a commitment of that sort though we "fool around" it is simple stuff like hand job or fingering or whatever nothing big but neways ummm back to my point the first time i used a vibrator it broke my hymen in slang it popped my cherry and i bleed about as much as a light period so not really that much but i have heard it varies from person to person so the only way to find out is to try it for your self and it also wasn't too painful for me but as i said it varies from person to person and like you i feel too young to engage in sexual intercourse even with a guy i have been with for a almost a year but still he understands so don't let a guy pressure you into it because when i do it i want it to be special for me and him and i don't just wanna be some young innocent name on some loser's list and regret it for the rest of my life ya know, also to feel horny for me is to start feeling a bit tense and like i can't wait to get alone so yea.....i hope this helps you

Answer 4

I think your too young to have sex, so I'll tell you what I know about masturbation. If you put an object the size of a mans penis in your vagina it will break your hymen ("pop the cherry") and you will bleed little to nothing after its all said and done. It is quite painful to feel the vagina tear a bit in sex, but necessary to eventually become pleasurable (I started enjoyed sex around the fourth time). Just be gentle.

Answer 5

Thanks for your honest question. Firstly, yep that's an orgasm and aren't they great?

Secondly just because you have a bf doesn't mean you have to go all the way so don't let that stop you from getting one

You could bleed but not a lot if you use a vibrator depending on how far you put it in.

Lastly, if you are feeling horny then masterbate there is nothing wrong with it at all. If / when you get a bf you move at your own pace and when you're ready for sex then that's fine. Don't feel pressured.

Good luck

Answer 6

nothing wrong with that. at least if it feels good. yes its on orgasm. some can be intence and some less intence, but the more you go, the more sweet it feels. Nothing wrong in using a vibrator either. You may bleed, and you may not. some bleed for awhile and some bleed not much. You have your g spot in you and the clitoris outside to the top. both can cause much pleasure. You should feel it if you pop your cherry. It may hurt at first but depends on the person. When your horny enough, you wanna ride anything. read more about it online or books

Answer 7

yes you are having little orgasms... Nice Hugh!

But just wait till you try a vibrator then you will know what the really big deal is, that's the G spot.. and the big wow! ...lol

I really recommend this instead of having sex with a boy. He wont do it right the first time anyways... lol

It will be much safer for you and then when you are older and more ready to face the consequences of sex, you will kow how and where you like it and you first time with a boy you love will be great.

Good Luck!!!

Answer 8

you're not too young to have sex..
the first time I had sex was when I was 14 ...I think...and she wasn't my girlfriend...just someone I knew in the swimming club...

stop fingering yourself or wondering about sticking a viborator up in your vagina...and find someone...not necessarily a boyfriend...just a friend who is also interested in having sex with you.....It's much better pleasure when it's for real...like 2 naked hot bodies that become almost like one in the moment of PLEASURE

Answer 9

Yes you are having orgasms and yes you can use a vibrator and it may or may not break your hymen depending on how big around it is and how long it is etc. You will want to use some lube the first time or two unless you are very wet with lubrication of your own. Good Luck.

Answer 10

yes, it is an orgasm, and yes u will bleed, but not for too long. and u have to go up there a ways for this to happen. Look at some porno XXX movies and u will get some ideas. Dont get a boyfriend yet though, u r too young. and dont just have sex with anyone, the guy wont respect u especially if u put out on the first night. Plus u r tooooooooooo young to be playing with yourself anyways, but I guess it would be better than having sex with different guys. Good luck!!! and if it makes u feel better, go ahead and play.........