He won't leave me alone and I relly dont want him to... (We have a child on the way to add the icing on the cake)
2007-02-27 13:52:48 · 4 answers · asked by Sophisticated_Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know if having a child with him is "icing on the cake", I think you should give an ultimatum to leave his wife for you and yours (and his) child! As long as you are with him and don't put your foot on the ground, he is going to think that you condone his behavior and his infidelity even more- and he's going to think that it's alright to keep both his wife AND you. So tell him to make a decision!
2007-02-27 14:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ouch thats a tough one... your most likely always going to have some sort of feelings for him considering your having his child. but the best thing to do would be to move on and look for a guy who will respect you this guy cant be prince charming if he got you pregnant and now has a new girlfriend. its not right for him to cheat on his girlfriend with you if thats what you mean by he wont leave you alone so i would tell him to choose between you or her and if he doesnt choose you then you know what kind of a man or actually .. little boy he is and dont settle for that find a a real man! good luck
2007-02-27 22:00:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have already been cheating with him. Obviously! Loving someone is not a feeling,or emotion, or how good the sex is. its about a decision. do you really want to be with someone that you constantly have to look over your shoulder to see if theres someone else. if he really loved whoever he belongs to he wouldnt have been looking for other weman. Is this man capable of a love bigger than lust and are you willing to chance it?
2007-02-27 22:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a CHEATER, and its likely you aren the ONLY gal he has on the side... be careful not to catch diseases...
oh, he wont leave his wife for you... why would you WANT him??
2007-02-27 21:56:52 · answer #4 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋