Ok, for one I have a very high sex drive. And lately when I have sex with a guy its ok, but it's not like it use to feel. I feel like something is missing. But the reason why I think I’m gay are BI is because I have fantasy about females when I sleep are when I get my self off are even when I'm having sex with a guy. The sex is not the problem with the guy because it goods and all I just feel like something is missing. Are maybe I should give it a try once and see if it was just something I need to get out my system. I not a big fan of messing with females but I just have this strange urge that I can't get rid of. Do you think I could be gay are just want to test new waters?
2007-02-27 13:50:02 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like to me that your already gay but want to test new waters.
2007-02-27 13:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jaybo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok for one i know how you feel i have the same problem as i have finally realised that i am bi sexual and it was hard to contemplate whether i was or not as i regularly have sex with my boyfriend and when im with my boy i feel there is something missing as i have not long broken up with my girl of 3 years and if you feel that it is something that ur comfortable with doing keep on with it and in relation to you being gay or just testing new waters i would say that ur a bi curious which is nothing to be ashamed of frankly i found it hards for the first few months but i finally got over the fear that i am gay and it was the best move i made
2007-02-27 23:18:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no your not gay your bi-curious and plz been there done that. The same story its all crazy really Like i didnt go all farout b/c i cant see myself with a female but 1st you have sexual fantasies, then try your hand at something new and last but not least your battling with emotions and your sexuality
2007-02-27 21:57:24 · answer #3 · answered by C_Mommy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think it is worth trying, go for it.
You have to remember that sexuality is fluid and that this may just be something you are wanting to experiment with. You don't have to define things in black and white just because you like men or fantasize about women or vice versa.
Its good that you are asking this instead of suppressing it or trying to fight it. Try whatever you are comfortable with.
2007-02-27 21:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you just want to test new waters because you are getting bored with what you usually do.
2007-02-27 22:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by shoremen19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its or not are buddy. it sounds like your bi
2007-02-27 22:17:46 · answer #6 · answered by The Con 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋