I am 54 years old and my wife is 51 years old. She loves me so much. I only like her, not love her. We been together for at least 30+ years. I never had children with her but I did made love to her since I was 28 years old. She fell shortly to a terminal accident. I never fell in love with her. I told her "I love you" so many times I cannot even count. I never fell in love with her. I didn't leave her because I didn;t want to be sad if she had died (died at age 51). I can imagine myself leaving her and not being sad. When she died, she told me that she was very happy to have met me in her life. I don't feel bad at all for her death. At least, she knew I love her before she died even though that isn't true. I had to fake crying on her funeral to let her family think that I am sad but really, I am not sad. Am I truly evil? now that she is gone, I want to start dating again, Any tips on how to get a girlfriend at age 54?
2007-02-27 13:42:18 · 3 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
just start going out to public places and meeting people. my grandparents got divorced in there early 70s and both of them found new people to date soon after. i would try to avoid the bar scene though. all i met was tramps or women looking for a guy to milk them out of everything.
2007-02-27 13:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should've just ended the marriage when you knew that you weren't in love with her. Evenb though she seemed to love you, you know thta you were never in love with her. That's not the right thing to do if you pretend to be in love with someone when you're not.It almost seems like you didn't even like her! You had to fake crying at her funeral! It's not that you're evil, it's that she wasn't your true love. You wasted all those years faking love. And i don't think it's that easy to find love at that age. Almost everyone has their life planned out with their spouse.But you never know.
2007-02-27 21:54:29 · answer #2 · answered by t-dog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, i cant imagine a crueler deception than what you describe, hope you make yourself emotionally available to the next woman you meet, try the internet and singles social clubs
2007-02-27 21:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋