Well to make a long story short, Me and a "friend" have been casually seeing each otheer for about a 3 yrs. In between those 3 yrs., I say a year after we began seeing eachother, we had decided to go our separate ways because we were in two different places in our lives at the present time.But that only lasted a few months. we still love eachother dearly, talk everyday, visit eachother when we're in the others town and we still are intimate. the problem is, He has a wife now.
2007-02-27 13:27:45 · 10 answers · asked by Sophisticated_Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
So you are the Other Woman. Having sex with a married man. Now think, how would you feel if you was his wife and his wife was the other woman. Would you like it? You are going to distroy this marriage. Think about what kind of man would cheat on his wife and you want that man. Who is he cheating on you with? There is names for women like you and guys like him!!! You are those people.
2007-02-27 13:37:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he's the kind of guy that will see other women behind his wife's back, what makes you think you can trust him? And if you live in separate towns, what makes you think you're his only side girl?
This man gets sex from you when it's convenient for him. I'm sure he's a sweet, gentlemanly guy ... when he's with you. He knows how to manipulate you and get what he wants.
Forget this guy. Find someone who will be with you all the time, and not cheat on others.
2007-02-27 21:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by jackalanhyde 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Been there, done that. You already know what you *should* do, and you know there is no easy way to do it, so I won't bore you with the "shoulds" and "ought to's". But, I think the real question is why you commit to someone who is unavailable? Are you scared to let your walls down? Have you been hurt? Are you looking for someone to hurt you again? Are you afraid to find someone who will be good to you?
You really need to look inside yourself, with or without professional help, and find the answers as to what this relationship provides you. It obviously gives you something you need (besides love and sex) or else you wouldn't be hanging on. Good luck to you!
2007-02-27 21:38:09 · answer #3 · answered by cate k 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If this guy really like you he would have divorce her because you love birds should be happy knowing that you love each other and not knowing that you guys are hiding away and keeping this a secret. If he have kids you should move on. There are many guys out there.....make the right choice..happyness always come first
2007-02-27 21:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The answer to your question lies within the last 5 words of your question.
2007-02-27 21:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs. Smarty Pants 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
never ever involved in this type of relationship as most married man loves his spouse n kids seriously,u r better don't play the fire urself.
2007-02-27 21:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Find a single man.
2007-02-27 21:34:22 · answer #7 · answered by CommonSense 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it was really complicated! i've been there and nothing happens, we separate our ways coz there's no chance at all for us to be legal. if your partner was ready to be with you and leave his wife then you can say he's for you but if not learn to forget him now!
2007-02-27 21:32:33 · answer #8 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do unto others. What if you were the wife?
You deserve more too!
2007-02-27 21:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Revelation S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
move on ! this relationship is going nowhere,ive been involved with married men, they never leave them, they love them more and you are being used
2007-02-27 21:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by sydneygal 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋