My best friend is allways asking if i would ever masterbate in front of another man or have sex with another man he has never made a direct pass at me so I don't know if he is serious or just joking around,but i allways change the subject or he laughes it off. We are both happily married and i know for a fact that my wife would never experiment with a foursome of anykind.
So how do i find out if he is serious or just joking around without lossing him as a friend if I'm wrong?
2007-02-27 13:24:47 · 4 answers · asked by Hellspawn 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If he is asking frequently, he wants to have a jerk off session with you. Have you and he ever been in situations like at the gym where he has seen you nude, and you him? Do you pee together at the urinals when you are out and about? Normal guy stuff, but if you haven't then he may just be bi-curious. Next time he brings it up, ask why, or if he ever has--put the question and response requirement back on him and see if he responds. Or you could say that since he has brought it up so much, it has got you to thinking (which is obviously true) and that it might be something to try sometime just for fun. Then see how he responds. Good luck; you might end up with a more enhanced male friendship with some nice perks. Remember that good friends are hard to find and important to hold onto. Certainly best friends have a love relationship, just not always a sexual relationship and it is not required.
2007-02-27 15:31:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him in a straightforward manner (pardon the pun). When he asks next time, look him in the eye and say "Only with you" or some such. Don't change the subject. Bring it up and talk about it. Who knows? Perhaps this could expand both of your sexual horizons!
2007-02-27 21:56:12 · answer #2 · answered by behrmark 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great your still going to be friends with him! Wait, What if he was gay? Would you still be his friend then? I hope. Anywho, just...ask him in a way that's not really asking. Ask him that same question. See what he says. Yes = GAY No = CLOSET GAY or STRAIGHT.
Get what Im saying. lol.
2007-02-27 21:55:42 · answer #3 · answered by Me..................... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he wouldn't ask if he really didn't want to know.
2007-02-27 22:23:30 · answer #4 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋