what would you do?

Question

what would you do if your boyfriend had sex with you and left state before you found out you were pregnat?i would chase him out state until he pays child support.lol.

Answer 1

I wouldn't chase him. I would contact him to let him know, just in case he wants to be in the child's life. Either way, after the child is born, I would let the court chase him for child support.

Answer 2

I would be hurt but it depends on the man you're dealing with. For example, I didn't know I was pregnant until 4 months.(Irregular period)He broke up with me before that for no apparent reason,didn't bother to give one. I told him because I felt he had a right to know and he didn't even contact me before he left country.I keep contacting him to try to see what he will do, he avoids and changes the subject. So as a respectable woman, how would it benefit me to chase a man that evidentally does not want this. He told me he couldn't afford it any way and wouldn't pay. On top of that theres another woman pregnant too and he has a wife,supposedly going through a divroce,go figure. It would not benefit me or my child to contact him ever again.Why pursue it,it'll only cause drama won't make the situation better for my child.If I took him to court he would be bitter try for visitation,etc.,and I don't want my baby around all that.So forget about it do it yourself it's not worth it for your child you can't think about yourself any more.

Answer 3

Well he should definitely be informed that he was going to be a father. If he is a man, then he would come back and be a part in that child's life. If not, then he should pay child support until that baby is eighteen.

Answer 4

I agree, i would definatly find him not only for the help but if possible that baby deserves a daddy

Answer 5

Okay...