Okay..this may seem a little wierd, but please give me advice on this one...
The guy i like is like my bestfriend and we hang out all the time but im starting to feel really confused around him and all but i dont want to mess anything up and ruin our friendship. It's starting to get to the point where he is obnoxious and i cant stand him..i want to have him as what i want him to be but, i cant stand having him as just a friend. What would you do???
2007-02-27 12:56:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
girl get off drugs or hang out with mature dudes
2007-02-27 13:12:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see any mention of your age, so, I'm going to presume that you are in your teens. This happens to be a very confusing time in the life of most teenagers. There are a lot of things going on physically, biologically and emotionally, with members of both genders. Thoughts, impulses and desires are rearranging and solidifying. New likes and dislikes are emerging and presenting themselves. Remember, that these changes will complete themselves with time, and, time is what you will need. None of the decisions need to be made immediately. So, before you take any drastic steps, allow yourself the time you need to discover who you are, and where you want to go. You are still young, and, time is on your side. Also, your friend may very well be as confused as you are at this point, and, you need to give him time to adjust as well. Besides, you will probably reach maturity long before he does, and, you will someday define your realtionship for yourself.
Good luck and God Bless.
2007-02-27 21:13:36 · answer #2 · answered by Pastor Jeff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm toughy try to explain how you feel i guess
2007-02-27 21:01:35 · answer #3 · answered by AW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋