My ex is dating someone now and I am moving on now, but she keeps telling her family she misses me and is scared of someone winning my heart. What is wrong with her? I know I shouldn't care and have every right to do whatever it is I want, but there is a part of me that still does. She tries to call now and then and gets mad when I don't pick up. She texts me messages that I'm a jerk for not picking up and that the choice she made is the right one. I dont need that crap. .Ladies, have you ever felt this way and if you started dating someone else shouldn't you just be focusing on your new relationship as opposed to worrying about your old one. Have you ever made an ex feel bad so you could justify moving on when it was your idea in the first place?
2007-02-27 12:52:32 · 13 answers · asked by Need Answers 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What's the point of playing games. I wished her well, shouldn't she do the same for me.
2007-02-27 12:57:09 · update #1
She is playing with your mind. She is trying to make you like a spare tyre. So basically she is dating someone else, but she doesn't want you to move on just yet, because if it doesn't work out with the current one that she is dating now, then she knows that she will have you to go back to. But if you just move on, and don't give in, she will realize that hanging on to you and dating someone else as well isn't going to work. If she really did miss you like she tells her family, then she wouldn't have made the choice to go and date someone else, she would have stayed with you. She is being possessive. If she can't have you then no one can. Just ignore it, and move on. Don't fall for that.
2007-02-27 13:12:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you ever get the idea that things are logical, or even reasonable? Poop happens. When people are breaking up, ending a relationship, moving on, or whatever term you like- they get weird. Everybody does. Normally rational folks, out howling at the moon, joining the Moonies, or enlisting in the French Foreign Legion. Buddy, she IS crazy. Don't worry about it. Next week, you'll be the crazy one. Relax, and accept that things will be strange for a while.
2007-02-27 13:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I know your looking for girls to answer this, but I went throught it like you are now. I dated a girl for about 1 1/2 years. We broke up stopped talking (it isn't like we hated each other or anything just went our seperate ways)and before she went to school wanted to hang out. So we did and then ever since she wanted to be with me, but was 4 hr's away. Then she meet some guy, which I was totally cool about and supported her to be happy, yet she would call me constintly and treat me like i was still her boyfriend and give me **** for not answering. In any event DO NOT feel guilty, remember she's the one with the boyfriend, and you need to move on yourself ( just think if she's acting this way now when your broken up; how will she act when your together?!?!?) Good luck!
2007-02-27 13:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, sometimes it comes down to a he said/she said. Women and men have different views on things. Perhaps she feels that you pushed her away and gave her no choice, or perhaps you feel that way. Circumstances in a situation can cause a miscommunication of sorts and perhaps she is wishing she would have handled things differently. I don't know your situation and the depths of your feelings for her, but, if you do have feelings for her, then, you need to be honest with yourself. And, perhaps her guilt tactic is the only way she knows how to get to you. I don't think she is crazy or psycho. Probably confused.
2007-02-27 13:07:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex isn't crazy but she is a Drama Queen. She loves having the attention of two guys wanting her. She's playing you: if she really felt the way she said she felt about you, she wouldn't be with another guy in the first place.
2007-02-27 12:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
haha I consider you. and that i'm fantastically particular that adult men are responsible on that. quite a few adult men call their ex's loopy because of fact they're the guy who made the girl loopy over him. Why did I say that? My ex used to call his ex's loopy telling me issues I by no potential assume with reference to the girl...Now? i ask your self whether he's looking me that way too. nicely if so, i do no longer CARE :)
2016-11-26 19:44:25 · answer #6 · answered by kemmer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, obviously she is not crazy because most girls do seem a little jealous after a break up. Just give it some time. But, if she is making you so guilty that it is getting uncomfortable, then confront her and try to first explain to her that what she is doing needs to stop or atleast lighten up a bit.
good luck!
2007-02-27 13:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by hisbaby1492 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If that makes her crazy, then my ex is psycho. He was caught with kiddie porn and refuses to let me have the rest of my things back because Alabama is a state where what I brought into the marriage now belongs to both of us. One of the things he refuses to give back is my daughters bedding. Jacking off to little girls on the computer isn't enough. Now he is jacking off in my daughters bed.
2007-02-27 13:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, even though my former boy friend wasn't exactly faithful to me, I don't call or text or even talk to him, I don't think that your ex is crazy I just think that she misses you.
2007-02-27 13:01:55 · answer #9 · answered by lovefromavampire 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes she just trying to see if you will take her back. Don't block her # and continue with your new relationship
2007-02-27 12:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by tastyflow 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋