After i had my daughter which was 14 months ago i stopped feeling like having sex but i still did it to make him happy. But now i don't ever want to do it!! I can't stand it. It is boring and very uncomfortable. Is there anything i can do to make me want it again?? I want to love and enjoy sex!!
2007-02-27 12:42:31 · 24 answers · asked by K3LL! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
get a different guy
2007-02-27 12:45:51 · answer #1 · answered by baconbobdude 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, this is a faze that you may be going through since you had the baby. This is not unusual for mothers, but you must alway make your man or husband happy in this manner, for you do not want to give any reason to step out on you. Wait, I know what you are thinking, If he loves me he will not cheat. Okay I feel you, but a man is a man and he can love you to death but when it comes down to a man if opportunity presents it self things can happen.
2007-02-27 21:18:17 · answer #2 · answered by sexy black 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to this web site and check out the information you read on it. It may or may not be right for you but for me and my lady, it's great. Our sex life was a 1, but now it's a 10 +. Every night we now have porn movie like sex and go for up to and many times last over an hour.
2007-02-27 20:50:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First make sure you have taken care of businessdown there, dont have any expections and take it slow. The more you fight it the more uncomfortable it will be. Imagin what ever you need to just relax. Keep at it and you'll be back in the game in no time!
2007-02-27 20:51:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
FOREPLAY...the gentle touches and sensual tingles...dont rush into sex right away! one idea i used when my sex life with my bf became a routine: when youre lying next to each other start out with kisses and then touches, take his hand and just guide his hands to your sensitive spots...a little rubbing does not hurt but the gentle touch just gets them to that point, a few moments before they release. wait to take the roughness of sex towards the end. hope this helps =)
2007-02-27 20:52:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well have you been to the dr? There may be a medical reason if it's painfull. You may need longer foreplay. A massage and romantic night out could be what you need . Talk to him get inventive open yourself to more postions and situations.
2007-02-27 20:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by tastyflow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the best advice I can give you is for you guys to go to a therapist/counselor..be open about it with your partner..and go see someone....Unless the advice is coming from a real therapist, I don't think you should be paying attention to any of the answers I've read!
2007-02-27 20:51:21 · answer #7 · answered by Eduardo A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try to get the passion back, can you think of a way to do that? Maybe go away for a weekend. If that dont work try lube, toys or porn
2007-02-27 20:46:09 · answer #8 · answered by Rosie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably a mild case of postpartum depression, Get your hormone levels checked by an endocrinologist.
2007-02-27 20:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel the same way u feel , i love sex but is it really all that important all the time ? tell him how u feel and maybe ifhe would stop pushing it on u , and maybe u will be u will grow to like it just as much
2007-02-27 20:48:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said your not comfortable with it,maybe your man was not that good in bed,both of you should consult a doctor related to this matter, this is a no big deal matter, sex is a big factor in a relation talk to your man about this matter before it get worst. hope this help you.
2007-02-27 20:55:08 · answer #11 · answered by tyrone q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋