Ok, so me and my boyfriend just broke up. Long story short he was cheating and I saw it, so I broke up with him. I loved him soooo much and I still do. All my friends say it was a good thing that we did break up, but I'm thinking different.
2007-02-27 12:25:08 · 8 answers · asked by Lindz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel for you. I just found out a bunch of things to. I've been lied for 6 yrs. I found out my husband had a girlfriend when we were apart for 8 months. We got back together in Oct. He moved out last week. My daughter told me he has been with other girls. He's been cheating since Jan. So much for a new start and new year. hang in there. So I believe once a cheater always a cheater. You are worth so much more. I am already or it. He's not worth my time anymore.
Good luck sweetie
2007-02-27 12:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by princessblake95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is tough. But you can get through it. Women are made strong. We have to be, because some guys are real jerks. But there is someone out there for you who isn't a jerk and who will respect you. I can't tell you to just forget about him, that takes time and effort, but I can tell you to take little steps. Try getting out more, doing things to keep you busy so you won't think about him so much. Make friends with some guys, don't rush into anything, but keep an open mind. Good luck!
2007-02-27 12:34:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good you did the right thing to break with him...Means you have respect for yourself and that really means alot from you ANd yes yu will think diferent but don't go back to someone don't respect you at all...So yes is hard to deal with the break up...But everyone in this world some how went throug that sometime you are not alone...So think always that you are first and always will be you first...One day you think back and say wow!!! I dont have no feelings fro him anymore and you will be able to love again believe me.
2007-02-27 12:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the best thing for right now probably is to just stay like that for a while longer. If you cannot stand it anymore then give him a chance.
BUT, only if you can trust him. If he is the type of guy that will do it again tell him you love him but he needs to change his ways. It is very important to listen to your friends, they are looking out for you.....but more importantly you have to listen to your heart. Your heart knows better then ANYONE else.
I wish the best for you honey!
2007-02-27 12:32:44 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole Pruitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When my boyfriend dumped me I just tried to stay as busy as I could so that I would not think about him. So hang out with your girls.
2007-02-27 15:54:20 · answer #5 · answered by deshawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just lettin you know you probably dont like him- you just think you do your friends know best- you dont want to be in love with a cheater- find someone better- that is proving that he is not good enough for you
2007-02-27 12:35:01 · answer #6 · answered by monkeyluver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way I thik to deal is to keep yourself busy!!! When you're busy, you can't think of him so you will eventually forget it where it won't hurt!!
2007-02-27 12:29:29 · answer #7 · answered by lovin' life... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to ur friends, they know what's best for you!just firlt with other guys, go on dates!!!!!! i garentee you you will be over him. oh yeah, remember to throw all his things away so you won't remember him.
2007-02-27 12:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋