ok i have this enemy. she always starts stuff. so i try to tell it like it is and i do. then we become friends again. shes stolen my stuff before and then shes made me upset. should we just stay enemies or what?
2007-02-27 12:23:08 · 20 answers · asked by kate 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
you don't have to be enemies with her.. Just slowly and nicely start checking out from the relationship.. don't even tell her its coming.. Be nice and say you are a friend.. But then slowly distance yourself from her without having words with her.. You will be so much happier in a short time from now
just stay away, period
ignore the b^iatch
2007-02-27 12:25:50 · answer #1 · answered by jeffylynne 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you shouldn't become enemies at all really, to hate something or somebody is really bad on your emotions and its unhealthy.. But if you're really having a hard time with this person, it just may as well be the thing to do...stay away from each other and don't even test your own Karma by saying anything about her....nada. Because what goes around comes back around....always does, no matter what the scenario...sorry to be so blunt here, but I think that if you're having the troubles that you have, might be better to just separate and go your own ways....good luck.
2007-02-27 12:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rmprrmbouncer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay your FRIEND seems to have some serious issues that may require some medical attention you can't provide for her. Maybe you should go easy on ya'lls friendsip or call it quits. But seriosly what kind of friend woud steal from you and make you upset that much? If you're even asking this question it obviously means that you have some doubts about your friendship with this girl. I would just curse her out and ask her who she think she talking to like that? but you're not me so you may not wanna take that road. Whatever you decide make sure that you're comfortable with your descision and that you don't end up getting stolen from again.
2007-02-27 12:29:09 · answer #3 · answered by noella. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't have to be enemies with her.. Just slowly and nicely start checking out from the relationship.. don't even tell her its coming.. Be nice and say you are a friend.. But then slowly distance yourself from her without having words with her.. You will be so much happier in a short time from now
2007-02-27 12:26:51 · answer #4 · answered by Lea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as they say...keep your friends close and your enemies closer.....gotta keep this enemy friend behind the invisible boundry line...since you are able to tell her like it is..which is great and is the way it should be and you are able to be friends after....well you do not give her access to your valuables anymore and do not share anything personal with her. She is simply a friend who is there when you are desperate. Get my drift?
Yep...enemies closer.....in other words...her friendship is pretty worthless except when it is needed. And believe me it will come in handy at some point or another.
It is important to be friends with EVERYONE as much as possible unless they will put or are putting you in a position of danger to yourself or someone else.
2007-02-27 12:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO DO NOT BE ENEMIES.
that sturrs things up and it would be back and forward between you guys.
Be acquaintances.. Gradually stop talking to her and just strike a grin at her once in a while after that.
being enemies can sometimes put people into situations to which they have to "choose a side"
if they choose her side that wouldn't be good for you. being acquaintances doesn't create the drama circle between you and everyone that wants to become beteween you two.
2007-02-27 12:29:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be either, just stop talking to her. Ignore her completely. I wouldn't want her as a friend, and having an enemy is pointless if it can be avoided.
2007-02-27 12:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These days: Once an enemy, always an enemy.
2007-02-27 12:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a friend exactly like that. I have decided that I need to show her respect but i dont have to respect her. So, stay away from her shes bad news!
2007-02-27 12:27:01 · answer #9 · answered by scrchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion and experience,like i think u should just stay away from her. If she stole from you in the past, then its not worth being friends because then she can always turn her back on you. You proly cant even trust her
2007-02-27 12:31:49 · answer #10 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋