She claims to be single. Erin told me herself.
But here's what's going on:
1. In periods 1, 3-5, and at lunch, Erin and her ex appear to be trying to get back together. And right in front of me as well. They may be trying to get me jealous.
2. After asking her out, Erin says to wait until April, so we can go skating. She might be trying to delay this stuff, and most likely not going at all.
3. She doesn't talk to me as much, only when I try to talk to her.
I don't know what's going on, btu I think it's a jealousy act to me.
But what is really going on?
2007-02-27 11:58:59 · 23 answers · asked by Sean 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Her best friend, huh?
Wait, bad idea.
2007-02-27 12:06:41 · update #1
The two of us are friends.
But after seeing that she's playing games with me, I feel the need to hurt someone or something.
Another note: I asked to eat lunch with me, and she accepted. Yet, she was at the table after, sitting with her S.O.B. ex.
(My school's lunch seating system stinks: as soon as you exit a lunch line, go to the next available seat. No skipping or saving seats.)
2007-02-27 12:18:22 · update #2
Perhaps you need to ask yourself why you haven't moved on and instead you are 'waiting' around for some girl to make up her mind about what she wants to do with you...
No one should allow someone to have that much control over them. You decide if she is worth waiting for, or if there are many others who can fill the welcoming space in your life.
2007-02-27 12:04:31 · answer #1 · answered by T esira 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, without you telling us your relationship with Erin, there are too many holes to give you a good answer.
Based only on what you are saying, she does not want to date you...she is putting you off intentionally.
The question is, could she be waiting for a better offer, but not keeping you "on hold" just in case that "better offer" does not come along?
And still, she may simply not want to date you, yet does not wish to hurt your feelings or loose your friendship.
In other words, the only thing we can gain from what you write right now, is that you need to find someone who really does wish to be with you!
Everyone deserse to be first to someone, not second best!!! Make sure you are treated as you deserve to be treated..with respect!
2007-02-27 20:05:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant tell you exactly what is going through Erins head, but I can tell you that she is playing games with you! You might like this chick now, but do you seriously want to be with someone who treats you like this? If the shoe was on the other foot, shed think completely different! Move on, show her that you dont play her games. Most women seem to change thier act when they see that the man isnt going to put up with her crap...maybe Erin is like that. Either way, life is to short for this sh*t, so Id just start dating. Trust me, there will be lots of women in your life!
Good luck hun!
2007-02-27 20:04:35 · answer #3 · answered by Lis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls are more complicating than guys, i don't care what anyone says. I say it's not a jealousy act, unless you asked her out and you're laughing while talking to girls. Wait until April? Wait until you can go skating? You could go skating now. She's not worth it dude, find another girlfriend. I bet even if you did go out, she'd end up cheating on you with her ex.
2007-02-27 20:02:59 · answer #4 · answered by Jackinthebox 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Erin is a bytch.
You deserve better than to have someone make a decision to maybe date you in two months.
her and her ex are laughing about you behind your back.
She is not worth it at all.
Dont say another word to this chick.
She is unworthy!
MOVE ON!
There are plenty of women who would LOVE to go out with you NOW!
Join some other activities so that you can meet them.
You could go skating (roller) without her.
Join the ymca, volunteer at a local church.
THere has to be more people in the cafeteria that you can talk to. Sit with your back towards her.
Would you really want a potential girlfriend that is going to grin in her ex boyfriend's face and ignore you?
YOU DESERVE BETTER!
2007-02-27 20:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You would do best to talk to her and find out in an open and honest way. If you don't like the answer, then you might not want to waste time with her and move onto someone better for you. I am sorry to say these types of things don't even necessarily get better when you get older, so you want to learn from it while you are young!
2007-02-27 20:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
She's stringing you along in case it doesn't work out with this other guy. Forget about her. Stop talking to her. She probably likes the attention. Don't give it to her. She might come to you if you ignore her, she might not. I'd say forget her either way. Find a new girl and you won't care anymore.
2007-02-27 20:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's not interested in you, but doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Maybe she just wants to be friends.
If you're looking for a girlfriend, I'd stay away from her and find a girl who will not play games with you. Find someone who will be honest with you.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 20:03:11 · answer #8 · answered by impossiblemama 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to her..she obviously likes this guy and i guess is just messing with your head..i hate sluts like that lol..you should probably just get over her cuz even if you wait for her, she doesn't sound like a good girlfriend material to me.
2007-02-27 20:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by Halie T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait so do you like her? Cause if you are friends, why do you care if she is getting back together with her ex?
2007-02-27 20:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋