I am 30 years old and my girlfriend is 29 years old. She loves me so much. I still have feelings for her but I know it isn't love nor lust. I only like her. We been together for at least 6. We started making love since like 2 years ago and I never left her. I don't plan to leave her ever. I knew if I left her, I wouldn't have anyone else to make love with, and she would be sad and will be filing for child support if she had a baby. Thank god she didn't have a baby. I hope I don't fall in love with her. I told her "I love you" lots of times and I know I didn't mean it. What do you think I should do???
2007-02-27 11:53:38 · 5 answers · asked by Xian C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and that is 6 years
2007-02-27 11:54:39 · update #1
Be honest man. Seriously, if you really care about her at all you need to come clean. Stop be selfish and only thinking about what you want "someone to make love to". Living a lie will only come back to haunt you and hurt her more. You are both still young and in time will find others to truly be in love with.
2007-02-27 12:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want her so you can sleep with her then thats not good for u or her. Both of u at the end are gonna get hurt. And dont be scared to fall in love, i mean if u been with her this long and u dont want to fall in love then whats tha point in staying in that relationship. Try staying away from her for a while and see how u react when u dont have her there no more, u never realize what u have until its gone
2007-02-27 19:59:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth and let her move on with her life to find somebody that truly loves her. She doesn't deserve to be so in love with someone that doesn't love her back.
2007-02-27 19:58:29 · answer #3 · answered by It's Just My Opinion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont love her, nor want to love her... bottom line dont be with her. its better for both of you if you leave the relationship. For you it would mean you wouldnt feel bad about not loving her and for her, she wouldnt be someone who didnt love her back. Why dont you want to love her anyway? If you dont want to leave her, than why havent you tried to rekindle any feelings for her?
2007-02-27 20:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by inquistive1826 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a lot to be said for friends with benefits, but this is bothering you or you wouldn't have posted this question. i would find someone to talk this over with and do some meditating on it. only you can decide what to do.good luck
2007-02-27 20:05:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋