I'm straight, but over the years I've talked to alot of guys who say they'd like to be in bed with two females and watch the females get it on. I have a female friend who claims to be straight, but her biggest sexual fantasy is to watch her boyfriend get done in bed by another dude. In both cases, the heterosexuals really seem to be turned on by watching same-sex, well, sex. I may be going out on a limb here, but could this be the psychological equivalent to having secret desires for the same sex in both cases?
2007-02-27 11:52:46 · 8 answers · asked by 4everamusedw/humanity 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And----are you by any chance getting turned on by them
telling YOU their secret sexual fantasties of watching their
partners have sex withthe same sex and perhaps finding a role
in this little escapade for yourself, if so what type of limb do
you picture yourself "going out on"?
2007-02-27 12:05:49 · answer #1 · answered by peachiepie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I understand your question correctly, you seem to be asking if a man who likes seeing female/female sex or a woman who likes seeing male/male sex has secret same-sex desires.
I really have to say no. It's illogical. Same-sex attraction means you must have a least a sexual curiosity about the same sex. If you get into the bed with one or two or a dozen people of the opposite sex, it definitely doesn't mean you have a psychological same-sex desire. Now, if you wanted to see, say, a heterosexual couple, there could be an argument that you might be harboring same-sex desires, since you get to see someone of the same sex, but it's "safe" because of the heterosexual component and fact that you're watching the opposite sex, too.
I myself am a bisexual woman, and I love gay male sex. But my kink for that has no relation to my liking women as well.
Hope that makes sense.
2007-02-27 20:15:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Taboo fantasies. One may not have desires to have sex with the same sex. They just may want to see it happen. The girl is straight, ok, she wants to see two guys, not two girls get it on. The two girl sex has been an open fantasy for men for a long time and has even been in mainstream movies. Only recently has men-sex been "out" and still it is not received as well as girl-girl. It is easier for the majority to see two girls than two guys, go figure. You do not have homosexual tendencies if you have a fantasy that involves to people of the opposite sex. Who knows what Frued would make of this.
2007-02-27 20:25:33 · answer #3 · answered by WB2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're fantasizing about double actions of the OPPOSITE SEX, moron. Freud turns over in his grave every time you try to think.
2007-02-27 20:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that's necessarily true. Everyone has their own sexual kinks, but it doesn't mean that their sexual preference has changed.
Besides... A man wanting 2 girls, and a girl wanting 2 men... that sounds awfully hetero to me.
;)
2007-02-27 20:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do not think so, if my man even hinted that he would want to do that, he would be out the freaking door.
2007-02-27 19:57:22 · answer #6 · answered by 2fine4u 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
EWWWWWWWWWWW dont be friends with THIEM
2007-02-27 19:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Kit-Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO
2007-02-27 19:55:55 · answer #8 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋