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2007-02-27 11:50:53 · 19 answers · asked by mt.dew984 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you know there is going to be an assault committed on your gf, then you need to inform the police and ask for guidance. While you should not just stand there and let her be assaulted, you should also not start anything. It might be OK to defend yourself if someone attacks you first, but you may also get slapped with an assault charge if you get involved, depending on your state laws. Check with your local police department for information on what to do.
2007-02-27 11:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by T esira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu say this girl wants to "hurt" your gf, exactly how? I am assuming by violence. Where are you from? Where i come from they take care of people by guns or other weapons? Is she wanting to hurt her by fighting and you want to jump in to fight her instead? If this is the case are you sure you can "take her" and without doing any damage to her which will prevent a law suit? Yes you heard me right. Even in self defense a law suit can happen. They will ask you...why did you get involved in something that was between your friend and someone else? And if you knew about it ahead of time why didn't you inform the police? Also what is the bf going to do to harm the friend? A male hurting a woman? Definitely need to get a restraining order out on him.
Perhaps you think i sound more serious than you think this situation is, but you have no clue what can TRULY come out of what you might think is something like a "simple fight" in your eyes.
Tread carefully. THINK before you ACT!
2007-02-27 12:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by LM 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is hard because I know the first thing everyone is going to say is yes, fight and I can understand where they are coming from however, what is it going to cost you. I mean if you fight there are always consequences that aren't good. If you are in school you will be expelled or suspended and then get in trouble with your parents and so on and so on. The answer would be to stop those two in their tracks by talking to a peer counselor or school guidance counselor or your parents. It is bad enough some girl wants to hurt your girlfriend some guy too? You can't let them hurt her even if somebody wants to make something out of it for getting them in trouble. Let them be in trouble instead of you. I also would hate for you to get hurt in this.
2007-02-27 12:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by phylobri 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, depends on why both these people want to hurt her. Tell your gf that you want to help and ask what you can do. If you care for her then either way you should stand by her and stand up for her, but if she has done something to make these people angry and you can see their point of view then tell her to do the right thing and make peace, if on the other hand these two have now good reason then let them know you will stand by her and if need be fight for her.
2007-02-27 11:57:05 · answer #4 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is this fight happening? What you've said is that another couple wants to hurt your girlfriend. Why is that? What is so big that it can't be worked out? I don't know how old you are, but the whole situation is stupid. No one should be threatening ANYONE with physical harm. If you're in school, tell your girlfriend to confide in a teacher or her parents. Don't continue this fighting idea unless it's mandatory. If they do try to harm her, then you will need to defend her, but don't go looking for a fight.
2007-02-27 11:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if I was you I would at least try to talk it out with the people who want to hurt your girlfriend. If that doesn't work and if the guy takes the first swing hit him. Now the girl on the other hand I don't know what you should do. I'm totally different than you. I'm a girl. I would hurt her more than her hurting me.
2007-02-27 11:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Briann M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's what it comes to yes. But you should try to avoid either of you getting hurt if possible. Make other people around you aware of this situation. If confronted by the guy or girl, try talking it out. Fight only as a last resort, but if you have to, yes, defend her and yourself!
2007-02-27 11:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by Matt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so don't put your hands on the other girl but if that other guy touches you gf then you should defend her
2007-02-27 11:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you appear like abused along with her and the punching bag of the reltionship, now no longer merely metophorically(if it somewhat is the style you spell it!) and physicaly. placed her in her place, once you think approximately that certainly, no offense, she style of feels like the hulk... Sorry that''s merely the vibe i bought. i'm now no longer precisely sure who will win the combat. you spot in boxing, there are the enormous, efficient, tall, difficult adult males which would be bigger, they in many circumstances pass slower. Then there are the small, shorter, now no longer as efficient adult males that pass somewhat speedy, stay away from issues much less complicated and throw a team of punches somewhat promptly. You sound merely like the 2d guy(i recognize you stated you have been taller than her). She's a female, so do no longer slug her too perplexing, even if a team of those speedy punches(no longer too difficult however, considering you do no longer could desire to somewhat injure her, because of the reality then she will run to her mom and dad and say look my bf beat me up! which would be extremely risky, your image may be undesirable and additionally you have got indignant mom and father, by no potential get in that undertaking!) i might particularly attempt to locate what you probable did that made her could desire to overcome you up..... wish that facilitates! playstation in case you may't get out of the wrestle, or break up along with her, try learning approximately rigidity factors. they're a pair of of them,, and that they are somewhat uncomfortable and don't harm too much, even in the event that they are able to truly help interior the conflict. Like there is one interior the section between your collor bone perfect under your neck interior the middle. once you jab in there, somewhat uncomfortable!!! attempt to accomplish a little concerns like that! PPS i might keep in mind breaking up collectively along with her.... If I had a bf, i might with the help of no potential desire to overcome him up, until eventually he deserved it..... after all, i recognize i discussed previously to no longer bypass too difficult, considering she's a female, even if you may desire to reveal her that she isn't the boss, and which you do no longer precisely love how she acts... heavily, sounds style of like a female as a manner to get into bar fights all of the time.Woudln't you desire to have a female it rather is candy and would not could desire to punch your face?
2016-12-18 12:08:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a man's duty to defend his woman. Besides...if you don't defend her, she might leave you because you weren't being supportive in her time of need.
2007-02-27 13:03:33 · answer #10 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋