there is this boy i like at my school and were good friends. But he likes another girl, one of my friends. And everytime i see them talk it makes me angry, but i can't get mad at them becuase they are both my friends. if i tell him that i like him, our friendship willn never be the same, he will feel weird, i just know it. And if i tell her she will get mad at me! WHAT DO I DO???i really like him!
2007-02-27 11:46:58 · 7 answers · asked by CeRnA's AvAtAr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this boy is a preacher too, hes younger than me but shes wayyyyyyy older than him and i think she likes him too! BIG problem!
2007-02-27 12:00:37 · update #1
HI ANN Ok i guess you need to ask yourself. Do you want him as youe friend or boyfriend and her too.Which means more to you.And it is not time for you and him.Ask around and see if he may like you in the same way ok.And ask and see if she likes him in a boyfriend way or as just friends.Just becareful not to lose him as your friend ok. Friends will always be there when a boyfriend will leave you for another.Hope i have helped. He has time for you and her both ok.RAY
2007-02-27 11:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by ????????????????????? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang around him more and flirt with him (don't be too obvious though). Don't get mad at your friend because it's not her fault. Until you know that he likes you back don't ask him out because you don't want to ruin your friendship! Have people ask him who he likes and stuff. Call him sometimes (not a lot) and talk about school and tv and stuff like that! Good luck! â¥â¥â¥
2007-02-27 19:51:54 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Emily♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend like him? If she does then you should maybe not say anything. If she does not care then tell him. Hey, you never know he might like you but thinks that you would feel weird. If neither of those are the cases then just become his good friend and know that you are at least that!
2007-02-27 19:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Cali Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rule #1
Don't date within your circle of friends. That just leads to one level of heartache as you're already experiencing. If you date then you'll be more miserable when it falls apart. You won't have him or maybe others as friends anymore. When people split up some take your friends with them.
2007-02-27 19:53:28 · answer #4 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be real with both of them, dont hide your feelings-- it's a waste of energy, and will only lead to you feeling a whirlwind of emotions. How about you just tell them straight, and if they turn on you-- than they werent friends to begin with. If you dont feel like going that route, than just find someone else to be with.
2007-02-27 19:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. with me knowing im a guy and all when i like a girl i tend to look at them alot and maybe daydream but if he likes ur friend which its happened to me then i guess u guys will just stay friends.. if he likes you.. perfect if not at least you'll have em as a friend.. friends last longer then relationships trust me i know
2007-02-27 19:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by dramin693 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should let your feeling out girl ,dont keep it in she just has the know the truth. then why don't you just look for another guy so you wont hurt you friend's feelings.
2007-02-27 19:52:09 · answer #7 · answered by mexican_girl_from_cali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋