Can any body shed light as to why sex has been horrible during my pregnancy, I absolutely hate it. Very few times I like it but I never want to do it long at all I just try to hurry up and get mine then stop.Please tell me this is due to my pregnancy some how,what can I do. Please no dumb responses if you don't know, haven't been pregnant, or knew someone like this do me a favor don't waste my time.
2007-02-27 11:45:31 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
this does happen to some women while they are pregnant. it is not your fault you cant help how you feel. dont do it if you dont want to. pregnancy is the only time a woman has the right to be selfish and think only of her. while there are quite a few women out there that need sex almost daily while pregnant. pregnancy can either up or deplete the sex drive. dont worry you will want sex again after pregnancy.
2007-02-28 01:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am not the most sexual person myself since I have been pregnant. Some women enjoy it more because you are more sensitive down there, but this is the same reason some women are turned off by it, not to mention, morning sickness, tiredness, and all of the aches and pains and feeling unattractive. Also, with being more sensitive down there some women have a harder time having an orgasm or find that its not as good as it once was when they do have one.
So don't worry you are normal and I am sure everything will go back to normal when you are not pregnant.
2007-02-27 19:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by dragonfly7887 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know your hormones can do horrible things to your body. However, I am pregnant and sex is better than its ever been! It seems tighter and I get there more often than ever before. I have heard that some women don't like even the thought of a man touching them. Maybe you just fall into that category.
2007-02-27 22:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by moonstar925 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 30 weeks and I hate it myself. It doesn't feel the same as it used to. Nothing feels good and it tends to not be very comfortable afterwards. I have been told its more the hormones and overall discomfort of the pregnancy. I wasn't like this with my first one though, I really enjoyed it then. Lets just hope it goes away!
2007-02-27 19:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel bad. It's perfectly natural not to want sex. With my first I enjoyed it but with this one I am like don't touch me lol. It's very common for lots of women. You never know in the next few months you may want it again or not. Aren't pregnancy hormones great ! ;)
2007-02-27 19:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by aprildc82 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When I was pregnant sex was hard, and I wasn't comfortable not to mention not interested.(but maby that was just the person).Probably just being pregnant,your belly being/getting larger makes a person miserable.And theres not too many positions that are comfortable,not to mention the body is changing.Sex drive might be there but the body doesn't agree.
2007-02-27 19:56:49 · answer #6 · answered by gotabedifferent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how many months are you? sometimes your hormones can cause less desire or maybe you think sex can hurt the baby----which it won't if your healthy. Sometimes laying on your side during sex can be more comfortable.(advice given me by my DR.) I asked my DR. questions and he answered them for me. Sometimes the mother feels she is protecting her child by not having sex. Remember that child was conceived in love. It's ok to be joined together one in the flesh as the bible tells us. Now you are joined as three. What a beautiful thing!! Enjoy what God has given you together with your husband.
2007-02-27 19:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by catherine n 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't want to have sex at all when I was pregnant. It's normal, it's your hormones. Our hormones tell us to have sex so that we will reproduce, which is why we are usually more excited around the time we ovulate. When you are pregnant, your hormones dont need to tell you to reproduce. This can also be true for when you are nursing. I hope that helps.
2007-02-27 19:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Melissa 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pregnancy does weird things to your hormones. At different times throughout my pregnancy I either loved it or hated it. Your hormones will ease up after the baby is born. (And yes, this is normal).
2007-02-27 21:47:18 · answer #9 · answered by Laura H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think sex sucks while pregnant, try being dumped while pregnant.
It's very common for a woman's libido to change while she's pregnant. But just because yours changes doesn't mean your partner's does, too.
If you're not in the mood, and he is, let him get his quickly, tell him you love him, and then send him out to get you whatever weird foods you crave. Even if it's 3:00 in the morning.
2007-02-27 19:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Bradley 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋