ALSO!!!:
If you want to have a best chosen answer, you have to be answer 1,3,5,6,8,10,11,or even 12.
I want to hang with a group of friends. i cant because my closest friend HATES her. When i say hate, i mean HATE!! The girl she hates talked bad about my close friend. So i cant combine them because of the girls. I just cant out with them because my friend will get mad at me and she wont be my friend, Ive tried it. Also the girl that my friend hates, HATES MY FRIEND!!! Please dont say these things because ive heard them 1,000,000,000,000,000 times and they dont work :
~ Try to bring the close friend and the other girl together
~ You can hang out with whoever you want
~ Hang out with them seperatly
~Tell my closest friend how I feel
NONE OF THOSE!!! Please help me! Thanks!
2007-02-27 11:37:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First of all, what these girls have against each other SHOULD NOT have anything to do with you. You dont share a brain with these girls. If your friends cant learn to share you, then how good of a friend are they? From what your saying, this close friend sounds like a real @$$ for attempting to end a friendship by not approving of your social life. Maybe you should rethink why your friends with these girls and possibly if its time to move on from this closest friend because NONE of my closest friends would EVER say that to me.
2007-02-27 17:36:23 · answer #1 · answered by The M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it kind of depends on how close you are to your closest friend. Who do you trust more your closest friend or the other girl? and are you willing to put up with losing one of your closest friends because of this girl? is it worth it?
believe me i've been through this twice before it never gets any easier. my friend started talking about my best friend right in front of her calling her "goth" and "suicidal." it depends on what your willing to lose and if your gonna gain anything. also how long have you known your closest friend? chances are you probably dont wanna leave behind your closest friend for a girl who probly wont be sincere about it. so i think you need to think about this long and hard, by yourself, until you figure out the correct choice. Just remember, it probly wont be easy for you or these girls no matter what your decision is.
2007-02-27 19:54:21 · answer #2 · answered by A0I5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could care less about getting voted best answer, or being number what ever. You have been asking this same question over and over on here, just worded in a slightly different manner for about two weeks now.
You have had lots of suggestions from people, but obviously you have chosen not to take any advice that has been given to you. I enjoy trying to help people, but wasting my time and energy on this and being told not what to give as an answer is just ridiculous.
You are just looking for someone to agree with what you have decided to do, and do not want an honest answer.
All of your current friends sound as if they are little, spoiled, and self-centered brats. You have chosen to live with all this drama and turmoil, so I hope it makes your life exciting. Have a good night.
2007-02-27 19:58:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I would say that if the girl talks about your closest friend then why do you want to be friends with that girl anyway?
2007-02-27 19:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very easy.... just find two new friends who love each other and that's it... end of the problem...... (just a joke) I think you and your friends are very young, because if you were a little older you would know how to manage that problem.
2007-02-27 19:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
look into your heart and see which friend you like most and who you are more compatible with and spend time with her, and if the other is really a true friend she will understand and spend time with you when you both can and if not maybe she was never really a friend
2007-02-27 19:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by latina_linda_84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋