My Gf slept with a man before we got together and hasnt had a proper period since, this was 2 months ago now. to start with i dont like children and have absolutly no interest in having any ever, secondly i'm at college have no income to even help her support her! shes taking a pregnancy test tonite, i'm just worried about how i should react. any suggestions?? thanks!
2007-02-27 11:36:49 · 13 answers · asked by pomf 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If she is, then you'll just have to bounce.
2007-02-27 11:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by phxguy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if she is pregnant that is a situation her and the father would have to handle. Once she has discussed it with him, then you and her should sit down and figure out what you are going to do. If she wants to have the baby you have to decide if you want to be with her during her pregnancy.
I don't want to sound like I am discrediting your relationship, but a two month realionship isn't very long... a child is a lifelong commitment, you need to decide if you are ready for that. You've already said you are in no position to care for a child. This is a situation that you have been thrust into and you really would have no responsibilty to that child and it shouldn't have to effect your life unless you are willing to make that commitment to her.
2007-02-27 13:00:48 · answer #2 · answered by Jeannie C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The interesting thing about homosexual hook-ups is that there is no binding contract. Your girlfriend has a stronger claim on the stranger who donated the sperm to her child than she might have on you. Thus, you may do that which you want to do: help care for the child or drop like yesterday's lunch. That one is really up to you.
That said, I will add that I always favor homosexuals raising children over killing the li'l tyke. She didn't do anything wrong; why should she be punished?
2007-02-27 11:47:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop her like a hot potato she may keep trying to have a child in the future sleeping with other men " which is down right disgusting and not a natural act in itself " she is in need of deep mental help as soon as possible!! Good luck finding a woman that will enjoy you for what you have and not be wanting children.
2007-02-27 11:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you love her dont leave her. And another thing is its not your responsibility to help support the baby. Dont get mad at her if she's pregnant either or make her stress. IF she is pregnant let her know how you feel about kids. But then again if you dont love her then you could leave her. Don't get mad at her or make her feel bad about herself if she is pregnant. Well G00DLUCK =]] Hope everything goes good!!
2007-02-27 12:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by ♠lAUGhTERZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I first saw your question I was like, WTF how does that happen???? lol, just be calm. I mean, at least she didn't cheat on you. If she is pregnant. Accept it. If you love her you will. And you'd love the children. I mean, didn't you want to be accepted when you were a child. I couldn't really imagine someone who is afraid of being rejected {not that i know you are, but you do like being accepted, right?} disown thier partners children. Love them.
2007-02-27 13:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Me..................... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two should have a decision on how the child should will be raised. Talk to her not a bunch of Internet strangers.!
2007-02-27 11:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by qdeezy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, as she really isn't dedicated to your lifestyle.
For a minute there, I was going to suggest waiting for three wise men, as there was an immaculate conception.
2007-02-27 11:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by REV. JESSE LEE PETERSON 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a blood test, it is obviously NOT yours!
SOrry,
Obviously you should break up with her.
Why help to screw up that kids life.
Be friends with her and leave it at that.
Hopefully she will be scared straight!
2007-02-27 11:55:14 · answer #9 · answered by lisa s 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if she IS pregnant then you don't need to support it, the father does.
2007-02-27 11:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by collegedebt 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
why should you worry? she or baby's father would support.... and find another who's lesbian and not bi to give you more time and more pleasure.
2007-02-27 12:26:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋