you know when loved one die, do they visit you as a ghost or a sprit? "only problem is im scared of ghosts"...

Question

saz_evans

Answer 1

I have not SEEN the people, but have unmistakably felt their presence, and in the case of my dad, heard him talking to me right after he dropped the body (I was 250 miles away in another state).

My ex's mother was with me twice. Once when she dropped the body - she moved into my body and looked at my then husband thru my eyes - she wanted to know that I truly loved him before she split because he had been hurt badly before. Then, when we divorced, she "visited" during our last dinner together and she was sad that we were splitting up.

My dad was making sure I was going to be ok to travel for the funeral, and to help my mom. He asked me if I was OK and I said I am fine - are you OK - he said he was great now and that he just wanted to make sure that I was going to be ok to handle everything. My husband was standing in front of me as I had this conversation out loud. He thought it was a little strange.

My ex's mom also visited at the kids' house and cleaned the kitchen one night. Everyone went to bed with sink full of dirty dishes and next morning they were done - and trust me, no one in that house had the ambition to get up and do them. She aso visited the oldest child on a school campout.

Answer 2

They can visit you, but rarely ever do. Usually a newly deceased spirit does not have the strength and power to manifest itself to our living world. They usually "cross over into the light" before they develop that kind of ability.
You are well justified in being afraid of ghosts, though - simply because the plane of existance closest to our physical plane is the spiritual equivalent of a crime-ridden ghetto. You wouldn't want to socialize with neighbors like that in life and you don't want to be visited by them in their non-physical state, either.
To continue with this comparison, it is not impossible that a loved one might brave the hazards of such an "environment" to come back temporarily to reassure a grieving friend or relative among the living, but such incidents are the rare exceptions and certainly not the rule. It is also possible for the spirit of a loved one to become "lost" on this plane, and then they need someone to help them find the "light" so they can advance to where they truly belong.
I earnestly suggest you read these books:
JOURNEY OF SOULS and DESTINY OF SOULS by Michael Newton
THE UNQUIET DEAD by Edith Fiore
HEALING LOST SOULS by William J Baldwin
and FREEING THE CAPTIVES by Louise Ireland Frey
If you can't find them at a local bookstore, they are always readily available - and probably a lot cheaper - on Amazon.com

Answer 3

"And as it is appointed unto men once to die, but after this the judgment: So Christ was once offered to bear the sins of many; and unto them that look for him shall he appear the second time without sin unto salvation" Hebrews 9:27).

This is interesting because the author bases the return of Jesus on the FACT that a person gets one life here, then judgment. That rule is suspended only rarely (i.e., Lazarus.) No one comes back from death but Jesus. Therefore, if you see a ghost (and my brother has a photograph of one in the Winchester House), then you must wonder what being of such power is doing this . . . and why? If this being reliable or trying to deceive me to get something it wants?

Answer 4

I think it depends on what you believe...I don't believe in ghosts or spirits...personally, but if you do that is your perspective. I think that when you put your hope in someone coming back to you in a different form that it is really a manifistation of your difficulty in letting go of that person. I just recently lost a sibling and it can be very difficult for the reality of a death to be grasped - you are constantly reminding yourself that person is no longer here. The healthiest thing to do, in my opinion, is to deal with the reality that your loved one is gone...and is not coming back. Learning to deal with loss is hard but necessary - you don't want to lose touch w/ reality. The best thing to do for your loved one is move on - the best you can - rather than holding on for evidence that this person will show up as a spirit. The memories we have are what we get to keep and we shouldn't look for something else, we should hold on to what we really have of this person. That's my opinion anyway, one that is helping me right now.

Answer 5

My twin brother died two years ago, he was only 19. I haven't had any visits LOL but I do have dreams of him commonly.

Answer 6

I'm not sure, but if they did, there's no reason to be afraid, since they are your loved ones. They're more likely to take care of you than to do you any harm.

Answer 7

My momma always said "don't be afraid of the dead, they can't touch you. Be afraid of the live ones, they can hurt you."

Answer 8

no. but if they wanted to visit you, you would probably see them in your dreams.