I mean, I have to be honest with myself. After a lot of soul-searching, I guess it's just my personality and nature to be submissive. In my personal life I'm not that assertive or commanding, and like to get people to help me. I can usually do that because I'm pretty and can act very sweet >:)
In the bedroom, I'm definitely submissive. What she wants, I do... and I ENJOY it that way. I like my lover to dictate how things are done... overall in a relationship too, not just sexually.
It's not that I don't have a will of my own, I do. I just love to please and love to acknowledge a stronger personality as being stronger than mine.
Am I weird??? I never thought so! It's just that society tells us 'you have to domineering and assertive and stubborn and forceful,' and that's just not me.
2007-02-27 11:16:16 · 3 answers · asked by Rissa 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't think that its weird at all. The fact that you can talk about your so-called "submissive" nature so bravely, in itself reflects a very strong aspect of your personality (Personally, I think its pretty cool actually). It shows that you are not afraid of letting others know what you like and want. It shows that you are not timid about making that choice. It also does not make you, or the way you behave, weird at all.
True, there are people out there who have a tendency to confuse one's kindness with weakness, but if they all could read your profile, I am sure that they too would know that you are not weak by any means. Not at all! On the contrary.
2007-03-01 00:54:21 · answer #1 · answered by Chandru M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not a bad thing. It does not mean you are weak. It means you understand and enjoy your personality and there is nothing wrong with that.
2007-03-01 12:40:38 · answer #2 · answered by selena d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are just very humble, which is the way God wants us
2007-02-27 19:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by ma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋