its a long distance relationship; just got married last year but still apart now. we are working on to be reunited this year but i have doubts in him.
2007-02-27 11:09:47 · 10 answers · asked by meh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Simply put you don't... No one knows regardless of how far they are from their partners.
It is a bit like God, either you have faith or you don't. Maybe if you are concerned, ask... Tell them you always want to know the truth and be willing to accept the answer.
Ie. You could suggest an open relationship based on trust & understanding where if he wanted to have sex with someone else he would talk to you first.... That way you know if he is doing it. Or converse again, believe in him, have faith.
Either way it's hard. Good luck.
2007-02-27 11:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have gotten married until you were in the same state or city and could move in together. Unless he's in the military and over seas or something...getting married while you both live in different places just does not make any sense. If you hae doubts in him no matter what anyone tells you on how to be sure that he's not cheating isn't going to help you. You have to trust him and if you don't then there isn't any helping you. Sorry to be so harsh but it's pretty true.
2007-02-27 19:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your gut is trying to tell you something....listen to it.....
has he given you any clues that he is cheating? if something does not seem right..he probably is. dont put yourself in denial......
call his house at odd hrs. , esp. when he is to be at work, and see if a female answers the phone. there are lots of ways to checkup on him......i feel you are right...too bad you did not wait to be married till you could live together. you do not even know if he has a wife in another state too? etc......good luck and i hope it works.
2007-02-27 19:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by STARZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen. if you have low esteem about yourself or you think your not sexy enough your relationship is doom with ill thoughts and malice. go to the gym and find a clearer mind and stop thinking you have competition out there.
2007-02-27 19:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by NEMESIS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust is how you know he is not cheating...trust that you dont think he'll cheat..and trust that if he does he'll be honest enough to tell you.
2007-02-27 19:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust - without it your marriage is doomed.
2007-02-27 19:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Brian G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You dont know. They call it trust
2007-02-27 20:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you accuse someone of doing something you better be right because if you aren't they will go out and do it just to spite you
2007-02-27 19:15:25 · answer #8 · answered by Arthur 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i do not understand why you would marry someone when you can't even be with them
2007-02-27 20:08:04 · answer #9 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Trust" is how you KNOW he is not cheating on you when you are apart.......a very special commodity, trust is!
2007-02-27 19:15:46 · answer #10 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋