2007-02-27 10:56:10 · 26 answers · asked by babe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it results in people feeling trapped...
Isn't there an old adage which goes along the lines of: If you love something let it go, if it loves you it will always come back....
2007-02-27 11:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by Lyndall S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to force someone to love you...well it will never happen you can't force someone to love you, like you, or hate you. You just can't do it. but if you do try to force someone to love you it could result in resentment towards you and make the relationship even worse.
2007-02-27 18:59:45 · answer #2 · answered by Crystal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you do that it may seem right but deep inside you will feel something is not right. You will not feel whole. Love is a wonderful experience that sholud be felt between two people together not just one person. Now you can give your love to someone in hopes that they will love you back but dont force it upon them or they will break your heart. Now if you feel as if you are forcing it upon them then just leave and see if they will come after you to test their feelings for you.
2007-02-27 19:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by smfan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It usually ends up with two people being in a miserable relationship. I know a couple where the wife forced herself on the husband they have grown children now. She did all kind of tricks during the years to keep him. I would not want this kind of marriage. I want someone who wants to be with me and loves me of his own free will.
2007-02-27 19:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Janst 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think love can be forced. Love should come naturally, not out of fear or selfishness. In the end, what are you left with? Someone who cares for you (or says they do) because they are scared not to or afraid to tell you the truth.
2007-02-27 19:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by a.lady.in.the.street 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to love you. You can only force them to act as though they love you. Basically it ends in resentment.
2007-02-27 19:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Angie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bitter resentment, which leads to nothing like love. And you can not force someone to love. It has to be both ways.
2007-02-27 20:09:15 · answer #7 · answered by Red Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forcing someone to love you can be stalking... and person would be going to jail... For me I rather a woman truly in love with me and I am truly in love with her... it the best feeling and the best thing in the world... Knowing that we are truly in love and it will never stop loving even if we have upa nd down and serious plm but we totally in love... Very lucky to have my wife.
2007-02-27 19:04:31 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship that will be meaningless and have no real emotion or feeling.A relationship that can only end in bad b.c. 1 of the persons in the reationship does not turly want to be there.
2007-02-27 19:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by TH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say usually the some one is forced to love usually feels stalked and awkward. lets just say it ends random and bad
2007-02-27 18:58:34 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋