I have a friend who met this woman who has been pushing into commiting to her. Before he met her his life seemed to be on the right track. He was a nice person, honest and reliable. Since he has been with her he has changed and so has his life. He is bad-tempered, irritable, and become a liar. His physical appearance has changed also. He is losing his hair, has developed allergies, is always sick and is getting fat. His job is in a crisis and she wants to move in with him. I think that this woman is bad, bad luck because all of these things have happened since he met her. I think she is an evil person and has caste a spell on him. What do you think?
2007-02-27 10:50:52 · 9 answers · asked by Rosaline M 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
There are several possible solutions.
1. He is having a run of bad luck
2. he is irritable because of health problems he did not have before.
3. His karma is catching up with him
4. He has wandered away from his correct lifepath. While I was on a wrong lifepath; my health went to pot and I was angry at the world.
5. She has bewitched him.
The first two answerers do not think magick works. I can tell you from first hand experience. Magick works; and as a kahuna, I use magic several times a day.
I am a Master/Teacher or higher in five forms of Reiki, and have passed distance Reiki attunements to people 14,000 miles away.
Every time you use your lifeforce energy (your ch'i) that is a magickal act. Prayer for Christians is a magickal act. Martial artists who break cinder blocks amd slabs of ice that should break every bone in their hand that is a magickal act.
When I was 19 years old my Qigong master taught me to reach out with my ch'i and punch a hole in a cloud three miles away. That is deffinately a magickal act.
2007-02-27 11:17:39 · answer #1 · answered by Rev. Two Bears 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, what if she DID cast a spell on him? You know you can't break up a relationship between consenting adults just because you don't like her. So, magic or not, you're just stuck with her being around.
I wouldn't assume that the supernatural was to blame--it's probably just a bad relationship. Stress can cause a whole lotta crazy symptoms, stuff people used to think of as "being witched."
Talk to him. See how he feels about this. Don't push him to do something one way or the other--just be supportive. Listen. Help him out if he needs it.
Be there for him, but don't push him away. If this is bad for him, he'll have to figure it out for himself and act accordingly. You have to let him make his own decisions as long as he's competent (and just making bad choices doesn't mean he's incompetent.)
2007-02-27 20:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by SlowClap 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is bewitched, but I do think he has changed because deep down he know that she is not right for him , but she wants him and he is afraid of being alone. I would try and help your friend or else he will burn out. Ask him to name all the pros associated with the relationship and then ask him to name all the cons. Don't discourage him, just make him think clearly, it just sounds as though he is a bit p*ssy whipped!
2007-02-27 19:31:37 · answer #3 · answered by djdundalk 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We are responsible for our own actions. She is no more evil than you are, and there is no such things as spells! He sounds like he is going through depression, which IS real and very serious! You need to get mature really fast and discuss this with him. If he refuses, talk it over with her. Stop being so silly and take this seriously if you care about him.
2007-02-27 19:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you casted a love spell to keep someone, you wouldn't want the man to get sick, lose his hair and get fat.
2007-02-27 19:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by StormyC 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Spells don't work like that. There is probably a more defenitive answer. If you really want to help him find out what is the cause of his change and confront him with it.
2007-02-27 21:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by ccourtne_99 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest researching some protective amulet to ward off the witchy womens evil influence. DO NOT USE A SPELL!!! Just find some natural way of warding the influence or have someone else do it. You dont want a devil with rights to your your soul do you?
2007-02-27 19:57:52 · answer #7 · answered by goatman 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Spells don't really work like that. It's much more likely that there's something going on with him that you don't know about. Perhaps he has a disease or chemical imbalance. You never know, she may be what's keeping him together.
If you really want to help him, try to find out what the actual situation is.
2007-02-27 18:59:51 · answer #8 · answered by KC 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
some people, can become "toxic" to each other
no, he has not been "witched" as you put it, but because he may be under her spell, as alot of people fall under anothers spell when they are in love, he may be suffering some of the fall outs of this....
she may just not be good for him, or they may be hazardous to each other.
2007-02-27 20:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by amber 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋