I am thoroughly impulsive, incredibly paranoid, utterly negative, and socially retarded. Ive tried several medicines but Im getting sick of them. How can I learn to become a productive citizen naturally?
2007-02-27 10:44:52 · 5 answers · asked by maguathehearteater 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Drop the chemicals and practice. Social skills are not innate, they are learned. The more you get out there, the easier it will get. As far as the negativity, all I can say is bag it and be thankful you have your health and are able to get out. Work on each trait one at a time until you find your comfort zone. Good luck.
2007-02-27 10:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by PariahMaterial 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
at least you know you have a problem.
First, stop talking or thinking a bout negatives when they pop up in your mind...tell yourself..it doesn't envolve you.
Second,figure out what you are paranoid about, then relize other people go on living, no matter whats happening around them.
Third...go to places where people are, don't talk at first, just listen. You get a feel of how people carry on conversations with ease. Sometimes medicine works, But the person taking them also has to learn to handle them selves. Same thing as if you put one painting over another...no matter what that other painting is still under there. Get your self a new canvas...and start a master piece....Understanding life goes on and nothing we can do about it...helps.
2007-02-27 19:34:31 · answer #2 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a mentor, someone whom you can trust and admire.
Ask him or her to steer you in the right direction regarding social attitudes. Your mentor will tell you all about why being paranoid and impulsive is not productive.
Your sincere resolve is also necessary but good luck if you want to turn your life around.
2007-02-27 19:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by Freddy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have control in your self you can not say that you tried so hard that you quit because quiters never win no matter what for sure youll have to try so keep that in your mind an always be confidint in your self thats the only way you will succeed
2007-02-27 18:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get off all the medications and figure out which type of medication work the best. I think you're bipolar or something like it.
2007-02-27 18:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋