We have been friends for a long time, I dont know what he will expect or how far to go with him, we have touched I dont mind, he doesnt stop me. We kiss on birthdays, xmas and when we meet up with girl friends. I dont know but what if he wants me to, em, bend over for him?? I dont know about that, I think kissing, touching, perhaps, erm using my mouth on his thing might be ok but duno??
2007-02-27 10:40:59 · 17 answers · asked by wowdavid 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
just take ur time talk to each and explore each others bodys u dont need to have sex as i said talk and take your time
2007-02-28 00:49:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had the same thing with my best mate. I have a wife, he has a female partner. One night we went out and I just asked him if he would sleep the night with me with his arms round me. He said yes. We spent the night together at his place and it was great. We just held each other really close, kissed a lot, fell asleep. Next morning he was unhappy about what had happened and we talked about it. Since then we have slept (literally) together a number of times. We snuggle up close and sleep really peacefully for a long time. Giving a ******** has happened a couple of times, but the closeness, the warmth, the love, the security, etc has been much more important.
2007-02-27 19:54:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right, don't worry, things happen in there own time. If you things go too far or too fast for you just stop, and if you step over his boundaries just say your sorry and hold back a bit.
2007-02-27 18:53:10 · answer #3 · answered by roy_g_biv_83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on how far you want to go with him. If he wants you like you think he does if you get into some sex tell him how far you are willing to go. If you do bend over make sure you have lube
2007-02-27 21:25:42 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only do what you are comfortable doing. Say no to anything you're not sure about. Better yet, wait until you're old enough to know how to handle a situation like this.
2007-02-28 10:55:11 · answer #5 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh. you lucky devil, you!
personally, i wouldnt go too far with the sex... bend over? too young! i wouldnt... unless youre really in the mood...i would just stick to jerking off, mutual jerking off... maybe a nice bj or two. kissing, caressing. nice innocent stuff.
be a good boy, jordan.
2007-02-27 18:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by louie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just put the lead-soldiers away, get in bed with him, then say, "War's over, should we check our weapons?"
2007-02-28 12:34:36 · answer #7 · answered by musonic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever happens, happens. As the expression goes, if it feels good, do it!
2007-02-27 22:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get stressed about it enjoy the time you spend together and see what happens, talk about it if you are really concerned.
2007-02-27 18:45:42 · answer #9 · answered by angelj25120 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take it as it comes.
sound like u gonna enjoy
so enjoy
have a great night
wish i was u
2007-02-27 18:47:14 · answer #10 · answered by The Crow Tribe Awakkule 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋