Really, why? And casually the pretty girls are so much nicer.
2007-02-27 10:17:13 · 20 answers · asked by SomeOne Else 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Haha i know what you mean
If you look at some ugly girls myspace her description she put for her pics are usually stuff like "ooh look how beautiful i am! im just too sexy"
2007-02-27 10:21:10 · answer #1 · answered by Lila 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that the reason that you think that the ugly are "not as nice" is because most people don't really pay attention to all the people that they see in a day or a life time that are "less than attractive." They aren't attractive, so you never give a second look to them even if they are polite, so they really aren't noticed or committed to memory. They only ones that people notice are the ones who have managed to make some sort disruption to the flow of things, so the catch peoples attention that way. Then they are remembered as being rude.
Seriously, if you live in an urban area and go out to the store or something, how many people do you see or make contact with in a day? I would venture to say that one might think 30-50. It so much more than that when you figure: the clerks, the stock people, people reading labels in the aisle, opening boxes at the post office, parked next to you at a light or three lanes over. You won't remember them unless the were pretty enough to make you pay attention or rude enough to catch your attention. You never noticed all of the nice people out there since they didn't do anything to get your attentionl.
I know this for one, because there have been many psychology studies that have proven this and for two I have been both skinny and fat depending on what medication I'm on. When I'm slender: more random strangers say "hi" through out the day, open doors, randomly make conversation, make eye contact during conversion, say 'excuse me' instead of just pushing their way through, the list goes on. When I'm heavier: people don't initiate random conversation, rarely hold a door (in fact they may go out of their way to shut it), are pushy, don't make eye contact when they do speak, and in essence are "not as polite" in just about every factor of life. Trust me, I want to be rude to someone who won't even bother to make eye contact when they're speaking to me, or if they're being condescending. But most people try to be the better person and not do that.
There are people who I have met before when I was heavier, but now that I'm in a "slender phase" they actually know me.
People were right in that this is 3rd grade stuff, as adults we should have noticed this sort of phenomen and tried to realize the situation. There are polite and rude people in all levels of attractiveness, you just never bothered to notice!
2007-02-27 10:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by redchic01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all that's kinda mean and second of all, don't be steryotypical. No offense but seriously, that question makes no sense to me.The most unnatractive people are the ones who are ugly on the inside, maybe you should think about that. Looks shouldn't matter. Really, grow up. That's like, 3rd grade stuff.
2007-02-27 10:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by lydia033 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I know..i was speaking with my brother the other day..funny convo..why are all gangsters ugly? like seriously. I guess its cause they have no self respect and confidence...and in order to get respect they try an act like "rude?. But i mean, pretty girls know they're pretty, so they usually know guys will do anything for them if they can...ugly girls usually get rejected, so they have to take control..lol
2007-02-27 10:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well if you think their "ugly" that's your opinion, but no one should look at themselves as ugly. But maybe these girls have low self esteem and try to hide it by being arrogant or rude.
2007-02-27 10:27:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is an awesome question that really does need to be answered!! everybody ponders on this same very question all the time...i think maybe even the ugly girls do as well...when you find out...let me know!
2007-02-27 10:23:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ugly girls have to try harder. That's natural all over the world.
2007-02-27 10:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've noticed that all types of girls have asshole potential. And I notice that stuck up girls who are hung up on themselves ask that EXACT question.
And it'll be a sad sad world when everyone believes that the reason people are mean to them/not nice because they are JEALOUS of them. LOL
2007-02-27 10:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by L. 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ugly chicks have a high selfesteem, embed in then from their parents and family, and friends. Wouldn't it be great if all girls did!? Someone needs to think highly of them so why not them? I envy their selfesteem!
2007-02-27 10:23:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
The pretty girls don't have to pretend..the ugly ones do.
2007-02-27 10:48:06 · answer #10 · answered by B"Quotes 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋