What were big hints into knowing that you were lesbian?

Question

I lately have been really confused with my sexuality, i always liked boys, in an emotional, physical and sexual way
but now im 17 and i almost feel like im freaking a-sexual or somehting, in my relationsihps one thing that has always held me back was my insecurities and getting upset over the mfinding someone better, and now im being paranoid thinking im gay or something, i have had lesbian erotic like fantasies, and watched lesbian porn and what not, buti never once recall having a crush on a girl or anyhting emotional like that, so i just wanted to know what it felt like for lebsians who were in straight relaitonships but then turned gay? I just never had a feeling of being gay ever in my life..my families very accepting, and i knew hwat being gay was since i was little..but i never ever thought that i was that because i had such strong crushes on boys.

Answer 1

Maybe you are bi ?
At 17, you are too young to be going to gay bars. However, I'm sure the local gay movement has events that you can attend. If you see someone you like, you can ask them out. If not, well- show your support for gay rights.

(That's what I do at these events, support my gay friends)

The next 4 years or so of your life can be fun, or miserable. With the support of a great family, follow your heart- wherever it points you.