I am going through a rough time in my life right now and I dont like to talk about it but I sort of find comfort in this guy. I know he likes me, even before I kissed him. The thing is I feel like crap for doing this and I am sure he knows I am using him. We are not dating or anything. I dont know what to do. He knows its nothing but kissing. Help.
2007-02-27 09:47:26 · 18 answers · asked by Feeling blue 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Just stop using him
2007-02-27 09:51:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mag 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly, why are you drawn to him? Maybe because he is more right for you then you know. Sometimes the man of our dreams isnt the man we picture and fate has a way of putting people in our lives that are going to make us better people. I never in a million years thought that i would have married my husband i wasnt really that attracted to him but there was something that made me go to him, he wasnt in my circle of friends and different then anyone i had ever met. But now that i have grown up i have realized that the dream guy tall dark and handsome isnt always what is hot. My husband to me is now the best looking guy out there and is such a great husband and father i could ever ask for but i can tell you this i was for sure i was just using him to mend my broken self but in turned he was mending me to be a better person and fall in love.
dont know if any of this made any sense to you but just realize that there may be a hinded reason why you are "kissing" him and it may not be what or why you think.
BUT if you are just well being friendly then ask yourself what is it really doing for you? I mean is making out having sex whatever really helping you get over what is bothering you.....NOPE..dont think so. Deal with what it is that is going on with you and then turn to a man you NEVER need a man to feel better about yourself and until you feel you are a great person no one else is going to help you do that but you. So maybe look at it like this you are not using the man but you are letting the man use you and you honey are far to good be giving yourself out like that.
2007-02-27 18:09:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are being selfish. Stop messing with his head. If he really likes you, he probably thinks that the harder he tries, the more chance there will be that you'll fall for him. If you don't see yourself being in love with him, don't lead him on just because you are going through a rough time. He'll be crushed when you feel better and ditch him to go out with someone you like.
2007-02-27 17:51:52 · answer #3 · answered by Answer Schmancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep right on kissing. To quote a band from the 70's, If it feels this good getting used , then just keep on using me...til you use me up.
2007-02-27 17:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only want a kissin' partner, you need to tell him that..before you make this guy seriously fall for you..of course its wrong to use him like that..BUT, if he understands that its nothing but kissing, I guess its partly his fault too...Idk..
2007-02-27 17:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how u feel, that u are not looking for a relationship, but u need love and a careing embrace from someone. to tell u the truth im more worried about his intentions, since u say he knows its a dead end relationship
2007-02-27 17:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody uses others for one reason or another, think about it, he knows that you aren't that into him but he is "using" you for his own selfish reasons.
At least you have a conscious, feel good about that.
2007-02-27 17:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are both using each other.
2007-02-27 18:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eaither stop using him or start dating him leading him on is just gona make it that much more shity when it ends
2007-02-27 17:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by andy b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of it this way would you like to be used?
Honey, let him go you'll grow up one day and learn how to treat someone with respect and you will have it in return...... trust me!!
2007-02-27 17:51:54 · answer #10 · answered by kitzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋