PLZ TELL ME SHES PUNCHING ME AND CALLS ME NAMES BUT THEN SOMETIMES SHES SUPER NICE AND A REALL COOOL FRIEND , I WANT TO B FRIEND BUT I DONT LIKE WAT SHES DOING AND IF I SAY UR BULLING ME PLZ STOP I KNOW SOMETHING WILL HAPPEN SOMEONE ASKES HER THT AND SHES DID SOMETHING TO TH KID PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-27 09:36:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Lulu,
Why you want to be with someone who may hurt you?
Obviously, this girl got issues & you need to stay away from her.
My opinion, I cannot be around people that will make me feel as I am walking on eggshells. Friendship should be fun & good experience not pain & fear..
Good luck Lulu
2007-02-27 10:05:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a "best friend" like that, and had your exact problem. You know how I solved it? I stopped being her friend. I slowly stopped being friendly with her, and stopped waiting for her and talking to her. We "grew apart." Now we hug each other in the hallway and maybe hang out once or twice, but we're not best friends, and she definitely doesn't bully me anymore. Try the same thing. It might work for you. =)
2007-02-27 10:10:48 · answer #2 · answered by jude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no best friend will ever bully you. I don't think that you understand the meaning of best friend. A best friend will never hurt you, they will be there for you through thick and thin, mentally and physically. I would let him/her know that you are not a punching bag. If they hit you, hit them back. Kick their a$$. Don't be scared...
2007-02-27 09:44:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i would do, i would talk to her in private and tell her to stop bullying me. thats not right. if shes ur friend, she wouldnt be doing that to u. but then again, she might be just joking around.
2007-02-27 09:42:08 · answer #4 · answered by need answers & can give them,too 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah you should just make fun of her back and then see how she likes it ha yeah i used to have a best friend like that but then i was scared i wouldnt have anyone to hang out with
2007-02-27 09:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by asdfjkl;!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me and my bestie joke around about that stuff. and we sometimes hit each other. but not violently.
i really don't think that anyone could give you advice because we're not you.
but are you comfortable around her? and can be yourself (how you are around you family, maybe) around her? if so, she just might be your best friend.
but if not. stand up for yourself. don't run away from your problems. have some pride and dignity and most importantly, if shes a *****. be one back!:)
2007-02-27 09:46:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kodak Moment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell a school counsler and you and her go talk to the counsler.Thatz the only thing I kniow of.Hope it helps
2007-02-27 09:45:24 · answer #7 · answered by kalei_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie listen,
If I was bullied by my bestfriend, well they wouldn't be my bestfriend. Shes obviously not worth your time or friendship. Tell her and end it.
Good luck.
2007-02-27 09:43:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stop hanging out with her and tell someone about it!
2007-02-27 09:40:59 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not even be her friend I would just say something about it.
2007-02-27 09:45:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋