my friend is kinda a lame but dis gurl dat sit at my lunch table and talks about her in her face and my friend does do anything so the next day she sat at another table wit her other friends and i keep telling her to sit back at my table but she is scared and i told her if she say something about her i was going to say something to the gurl and i get tried....so how can i get her to sit back ova there with me again..THANKS
2007-02-27 09:35:38 · 11 answers · asked by Shanice L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Umm first of all you have terrible grammar lol but you probably dont even know what that means......
but anyway talk to the girl that keeps saying stuff about your friend. Maybe she doesnt realize shes being rude and is responsible for your friend sitting over at another table. If she keeps talking about your friend though ask her to leave!
2007-02-27 09:40:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very hard time understanding the question, but I believe the answer your looking for is: This one girl who is rude and keeps talking rude to her, should be asked to stop.. I am guessing your in middle school. Middle school is like this. You can't really do much except ask your friend to come back, If she doesn't want to you have to let things work their way out. It's hard to do and sit by and watch, but things WILL work out.
good luck
2007-02-27 17:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first you tell her your sorry for whatever you guys were talking about and then ask her if she will sit at your table again then you guys are friends again but if you said something really mean let her cool off for 2-3 days then maybe when shes calmed down she will relize that it was just words!
2007-02-27 17:41:27 · answer #3 · answered by Saber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you that you're willing to defend her to your other friends! Don't just stand up for her though, boost her confidence by reminding her nice (and honest things) about herself. If you can bolster her ego a few points, she'll no longer feel the need to sit elsewhere because of someone's opinion.
2007-02-27 17:39:33 · answer #4 · answered by laughter_6 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The people that you are with know don't sound like your Friends.If they were they wont make fun of your new Friends your meet.Try land ask her if you don't mind if you can sit at her table instead.
2007-02-27 17:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well try talking to the gurl and if that dont work then stand up for your friend.
Hope it works!!!
2007-02-27 17:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by kalei_10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you cant get her to sit with you then sit with her at the other table if that dont work then talk to the girl whos talkn about her and get her not to talk about her no more
2007-02-27 17:42:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you seemed to explain it to her well to make her not scarred to grap her hand and force her to come sit with you she needs someone to push her bc she is scared
2007-02-27 17:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk normally and maybe i could help you. I dont speak weird.
2007-02-27 17:38:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her that she is your best friend and you two gana be friends for ever.
2007-02-27 17:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by zaya z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋