Well all throughout grade school I was never considered one of the pretty girls. I was always picked on about the way thatI look becasue I look very unique. A couple of years after I graduated high school I guess u could say the ugly ducking turned into a swan. lol My body became fuller and more womanly and now I am considered one of the "pretty girls." Now I get the attention from guys I never got which I am still not very used to. Problem is now that Ive changed girls dont like me very much and they accuse me of being stuck up which is untrue because im reality i am painfully SHY! lol My personality hasnt changed, just my appearance. At work a girl snickers as I walk by and when people compliment me she rolls her eyes. How do I deal with jealous girls? I am not very used to it, what should I do?
2007-02-27 09:32:26 · 5 answers · asked by deanda 3 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
I AM THE EXACT SAME WAY. Here is what it is:
Before you were not so attractive, and shy...so people assumed you were shy because you weren't that pretty. End of story.
Now that you're gorgeous, there's no REASON for you to be shy...and people confuse you being shy with being snobby because you're not being open and friendly with them! They think...well she's so pretty she can't be shy, so she must just be stuck up.
I have the exact same problem..I always was so shy, and still am...and this guy I had a crush on forever told me that he thought I didn't like him, and I was shocked! I was just shy around him.
2007-02-27 09:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Because we feel threatened that someone else is taking the attention off of ourselves.
It's pathetic, I know. But that's how it is.
Don't be shy, have confidence. The girl rolling her eyes is obviously jelous. Maybe even rub it in her face a little by saying "oh you think so, why thank you" and smiling. That should get her going. Trust me, lots of fun =P
2007-02-27 09:50:44 · answer #2 · answered by cutie.pie_xo 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it extremely is fairly boastful to think of that girls persons are jealous of you. how are you able to be particular they're? And if it extremely is because of fact they're being nasty to you, i think of it extremely is greater in all danger to be due on your man or woman attitude. i'm woman and that i actually do no longer envy different women persons in basic terms because of fact they're greater useful looking or have a greater toned physique. you're making a extensive generalisation. seems such as you desire human beings to congratulate you. nicely, sorry to be the bearer of undesirable information, yet you're no longer that distinctive.
2016-11-26 19:28:39 · answer #3 · answered by giniebra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shrug them off! Those girls are just insecure and are trying to make themselves feel better becuase they base their self worth on their appearance, and don't feel as important if they're not the center of attention.
Keep struttin your stuff, and if it gets to be a problem - tell her straight up that you don't appreciate the way she treats you and would like to know what you've done to offend her. I guarantee you she won't have a good answer!
2007-02-27 09:42:16 · answer #4 · answered by margarita 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
because we are vain, pathetic, un-Godly creatures :)
also, we are all secretivly lesbian, except for the ones who can admit they are!
you asked, I answered ;-)
2007-02-27 09:42:17 · answer #5 · answered by dee 'the harpoon' harper 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋