How do you tell someone to stop calling you?

Question

I want to do it nicely because she's a cool girl or whatever. but she is kind of annoying. I don't mind one call, but she calls me atleast five times a day.............usually with nothing to talk about. We have the same conversations everyday. How do I politely tell her to stop calling me? I can't even complain about my cell phone minutes because we have mobile to mobile. I get enough of her in a day. We have 2 classes together, eat lunch and breakfast together, chat on aim. and now she wants to talk to me the rest of my day. what do i do?

Even when I don't answer she'll call right back. today I already have 8 missed calls from her.

Answer 1

ask her why shes calling you all the time. she'll probably get embarrassed and realize that it was "uncool" to call you 24/7. so maybe her call will lessen everyday. she probably really wants to be your friend, and doesn't realize shes too eager:)

Answer 2

Tell her nicely that you arent the type to sit on the phone. Or tell her you have to go some wheres with the family, or make excusses everytimes she calls. Sounds like you kno when she calls, just ignor the phone calls. Its hard to tell a friend nicely not to call any more, it may ruin more things then just a phone call. Just try telling her, when you get home you like to spend time with the family and not so much on the phone an that you like waiting for school the next day to talk because it helps you get motivated to talk in school. Just make something else you do more exciten when you tell her.

Answer 3

you are able to tell him to end calling with out crushing his ego. If he calls in basic terms tell him you're sorry in case you gave him the theory which you have an interest in him and which you will delight in if he would end calling you. If that fails, then be extra direct. I asked you to stop calling/texting. i'll ignore approximately destiny calls. If he nonetheless would not get the image then he's to thick skulled to capture any request. whether, you would be able to could use a 2 x 4 board located completely alongside the ingredient of his head, just to get his interest.

Answer 4

Tell her nicely that you hate it when you phone's constantly ringing...blame it on others, not her. Tell her you prefer to make calls instead of receive them. I've had this problem in the past with a family member calling me 24/7 @ work to discuss the same thing over & over. Eventually I had to tell her a little white lie -- that my job frowned upon staff talking on the phone all day long & I'd gotten a warning. Now she emails me, less frequently that the calling, but it's gotten better.

Answer 5

Yes, it sounds like you're going to have to cut down on time with her. I have a friend who wants to go on the webcam every day for two hours if she can. Well that's okay once in a while but not every day, because I have things to do. I told her:"I have a lot of responsibilities and we need to cut this down to Saturdays." She still tries to catch me when I'm online, but I usually ignore the invitation. Eventually she'll understand. Same with your friend. Tell her you like her but the frequent calling has to stop because you've got other things to do.

Answer 6

Hi

I just posted that same question and maybe I can answer yours and my question together .

JUST STOP TAKING THE CALLS . Dont answer the phone because that is what I am going to do . Maybe they will get the point and stop calling .

Take care
C

Answer 7

When she calls, just explain to her that you are really busy and will talk to her at class the next day, if she keeps calling, use your caller ID feature on your mobile phone and let it go to message. I find one call usually ok but when someone repeatively calls me, I find it very hard, this is what I usually do.

Answer 8

Don't feel forced to answer that girls call. "SHE GET ON YOUR NERVES" don't put your self in a bad situation. Don't answer as much don't tell her nothing, do it in your actions. Kindly though.
-phone rings- dont answer-then see her and say
"LIKE: 'Oh I didn't know that was you girl" Ha Ha> Don't share so much with her.
Be aware of the people who cause you stress and releive them. Get it. You don't need nobodys mess. She better stop calling. Thats not a good kind of friend.

Answer 9

Well, you can try to politely tell her but she will probably have hurt feelings regardless. I would stop taking all the calls - program your phone not to ring when she calls. If she confronts you then be honest.

Answer 10

as u say, do it nice. remind her that she already told you about (fill in the blank) ______ then add what you said last time. if that doesn't discourage her some then move up one level and then just tell her to stop calling "so often". tell her you have other interests and she is taking up too much of your time. be nice.