thinking about having an suprize birthday party for wife. we have been married for 19yrsi am the only man that she has had sex with, and i have been devoriced once .i am thinking about having just one couple to meet us at an resturant for dinner then we all would go to the motel for birthday cake(as wife does not like everyone in resturant know it is her birthday) and then have this couple to take their clothes off in front of her and then see if she would like to have sex with the couple. IS THIS AN GOOD IDEA OR AN BAD ONE?
2007-02-27 09:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by larry r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well to answer a few answers that have been posted. it is an fantasy of hers to have sex with another man and an woman.plus i myself would like to see her having sex with another man and woman.
2007-02-28 06:06:27 · update #1
That really wouldnt be a good SUPRISE for her and plus it sounds as if you are the one who wants to do it...if that is something that you want in your marriage, you need to discuss it with her first.
2007-02-28 05:28:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking if this is a good thing to do or not after 19 years of marriage and being her only partner than you should know this is a bad idea already. You may pressure her in to doing something you will both regret at best.
2007-02-27 17:13:38 · answer #2 · answered by painterswife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought this was actually going to be a sweet question, until I read it all. You are obviously nuts... I don't think this is the kind of surprise she would like, based on what you've said. BAD IDEA, TRY AGAIN!
2007-02-27 17:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 19 years I think you know her a “little” better than we do after 19 seconds it took us to read your question…
But to make it clear:
If you KNOW she likes this kind of stuff, then go ahead! And have fun!
But if you know she doesn’t, or you are not sure (yet), then DO NOT TRY IT, unless you are looking for a divorce.
Simple!
Next question.
2007-02-27 17:43:44 · answer #4 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad, bad, bad idea. Really, really bad idea. Even if she's expressed interest in such a thing, it's a bad idea, on so many levels. If she's expressed interest in such a thing, then she's going to want to be prepared for it. Ya just don't want to get the one evening she didn't shave her legs, you know? If she hasn't expressed interest in such a thing, then it's about the most horrible position you could possibly put her in.
2007-02-27 17:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by romipenne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD IDEA!!!! If you want to stay married, I wouldn't do this. You need to discuss the idea of a 3 or 4some before you spring it on her.
2007-02-27 17:12:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be happy if my husband did that for me but I'M a nevo so depends on if she likes sex
2007-02-27 17:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her before doing anything like that. if not your 19 year are going to be over.
2007-02-27 17:19:07 · answer #8 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll second that..idiot..
2007-02-27 17:12:33 · answer #9 · answered by sophia4470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are an idiot
2007-02-27 17:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋