O.K. My girlfriend finished with me on Sunday, things had been going downhill anyway,and the stress of it all had caused me to have an eating disorder which I told her about, & said i was seeing a doctor bout it,she felt 'we' couldnt continue.We had dated 4 a year. She said she didnt want me contacting her, & that she wanted 2 weeks. I spoke to her today,she said that for my sake, 2 weeks was best to get over her,& then we'd have to see what happened. I said, in 2 weeks, if I ask u out 4 a drink as friends,would u want2?She said that it'd depend on how 'I (Not her!)' felt, bcos it isn't always easy..... the thing is....i still like her,& i know if I cured my prob,she may hav me bak,but i doubt it. so questions...has anyone had a situation lyk ths?is it best to meet her aftr 2 weeks,wht shud i say?shud i just never speak 2her again?
please can i have some long answers! if i didnt ever meet/talk again, would i feel worse, than if i met her4drink.are there essentials2feel b4meet?
2007-02-27 08:55:24 · 3 answers · asked by Soliloquy 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
They say it takes half the length of the relationship to get over the relationship. If she is trying to move you out of her life I would reevaluate myself. Remember you can not be comfortable in a relationship until you are comfortable alone.
2007-02-27 09:05:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious about working on your problem, then show her that. Start going to counseling or whatever you need to do for support. Do it for yourself! Do it for her! Then see how you are feeling at the end of those 2 weeks. If you have started on getting better, your mind should feel a bit clearer now. If you feel up to it then go meet her and have a talk. Be prepared for it to feel different. You may end up as just friends, but remember people are brought into your life for a reason. It may be time to move on and focus on yourself for a while.
2007-02-27 17:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have experience here, give it time. if she really does like you as a friend, dont say anything to her, and if she likes u enough, then shell say something to you, and if not, well man, im really sorry.
2007-02-27 17:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋