ok me and my boyfriend that been together like 1 year and like 8 mons. just broke up we got it an argument over somthing stupid so i left his house then i come home and he is all texting me stuff like well im sorry! and then i say im going to sleep talk to you later. then i do text him back and he is like well im going back to the army i give up on us! and then he text me do you think thats the right thing to do? i dont know what to tell him. i want to be with him but im not sure what the hell it is he wants......
2007-02-27 08:52:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im so scared to let go i dont want to!
2007-02-27 08:56:40 · update #1
thanks guys for yals help even though it made me cry....
2007-02-27 08:59:27 · update #2
Just text him and tell him you want to be with him, but you also what the best for him, ask him what he wants! im sure things will woirk there selfs out
2007-02-27 08:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not sure what he wants then ask him. But if he is one of those guys that you love everything about. Then girl you try anything that you have to to get him back. You never want to do something that you regret. Tell him that your sorry for walking away from the problem. Your sorry for the argument even if it wasn't your fault. Then tell him that you love him. And this thing that you two have. You don't want it to end. Tell him exactly what I wrote and he'll come back. I said the same thing to my boyfriend. Trust me it works.
2007-02-27 16:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Shizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is weird bcuz he told u he was giving up, then asked u if it was the rite thing 2 do. He doesn't even kno wat he wants, and I guess u don't either. I think u just need 2 sit down, and have a long talk with him. Talk 2 him about the relationship, and work things out.
2007-02-27 17:20:03 · answer #3 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit with the texting!! that is not how to communicate with a boyfriend of that long and also not the way to communicate in a situation like this! go to his house, talk to him face to face, sort out what you both want, where you see yourselves in a years time. work it out face to face. it sounds like you both still love each other, don't let it end because of a fight over nothing!!!! good luck.
2007-02-27 16:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by purple__penguin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to tell him how you feel about him and the relationship,and tell him it is his decision of going into the Army or not.
2007-02-27 16:55:43 · answer #5 · answered by nickhawkins21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to say for him to stay with you. Don't let some silly little arguement ruin what you have together. Be the bigger person. good luck
2007-02-27 16:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by Puglovinlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
finialy i dont have a clue to a question lmao. I tell u what stop him before he does tell him how much u love him and that u would do anything for him to stay with you, make him change his mind.
2007-02-27 16:56:37 · answer #7 · answered by cahoonanthony 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea see this a good example for when people say that boys ae STUPID!!!!!!!!! But do whatever you think right. Maybe see and give him another cance.
2007-02-27 16:57:09 · answer #8 · answered by &thalia.belle; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit him down and tell him you love him but you understand he has to make his own choices and you will support him. chances are he will be back in your arms very soon
2007-02-27 16:55:27 · answer #9 · answered by keith s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares what his wants are at the moment...he is asking for your opinion so you should tell him the truth about how you feel.
2007-02-27 16:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by kcdude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋