I came home yesterday, maybe fifteen minutes earlier than usual and all his stuff was in the living room but he wasn't. I found the dvd cover of his Bigg Busty Babes on the floor. He rushed back up the hallway, pulling his zipper up and asking why I was home early!! He was annoyed, like I can't come home until it was the right time!! He was giggling and asking why I didn't call to say I was coming early...he said it was ridiculous that I was "all hurt" over him watching porn. I was frankly ok until I saw him zipping his pants. The thought of him fondling himself while watching that when he doesnt come anywhere near me sexually unless I initiate it blew me away!! He didn't see why it was such a big deal...am i overreacting????
2007-02-27 08:48:36 · 2 answers · asked by ♥Baby♥Girl♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I have sort of a mixed view on porn. I find it erotic when my husband and I rent a porno (maybe twice or three times a year). We use it sort of as foreplay, and it doesn't bother me, as long as we're together. However, I don't feel it's necessary for him to look at it on the computer when he's alone. I think it's disrespectful and I've told him as much. I definately don't think you're overreacting, as I would be upset as well.
2007-02-27 13:17:50 · answer #1 · answered by zuckie44 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely feel the same way. I found porn on our computer and was instantly disgusted. It is a big deal but I mean what can you do really. I guess the only thing to do is tell him why you have a problem with it. I don't think you are overreacting at all.
2007-02-27 19:40:32 · answer #2 · answered by G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋