I am a 16 year old boy and am curious about my sexuality. How can I ask a guy to help me figure out if I am bi or not? Don't want a relationship, just a one night stand to see if i like it. Been thinking about it lately and I really want to try, don't know how to ask.
2007-02-27 08:35:34 · 14 answers · asked by orange_crusader_mb 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
take things very slow and be safe
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2007-02-27 08:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Tegarst 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
i think it is not necessary to try with someone. i think you should have watch porn at least once in life so try to make a picture in your mind that you r wiz a man and then try it with a female. you will definetely know whom u are really. one of it will be nicer than the other so this may help u. it is easy to recognize whether u r bi or homo but difficult enough to accept. good luck
2007-03-07 14:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Apple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a simple, powerful, and truthful way. When you have some alone-time, go in your bathroom (or any room with a mirror). Look into it and ask your heart, "Who am I? Am I bi?" Don't say anything out loud. You will know the answer--you will feel it in your heart. There is nothing wrong with being bisexual.
2007-02-27 17:04:03 · answer #3 · answered by Busta 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think the best way to do it is to get a guy ( a peer!) over to your house for video games or something. make sure he'll spend the night. then, sometime during the night, whip out some porn (if you have some) and tell him that some jerkin' off should be done.. it'll go on from there- and you'll PROBABLY get at least a little action... and if not, you'll get to watch ......
if you dont have porn, i guess you'll just have to say something like, " i bet my penis is bigger than yours." or bring up masturbation. masturbation ALWAYS works! maybe even.. start jerkin off when his back is turned.... he might join you. try it.
2007-02-27 16:41:03 · answer #4 · answered by louie 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you are certain that the person that you want to ask is at the same point you are at, and will not make your life a living hell...then just ask him out to coffee (or whatever). If he says no thanks then you have your answer....I get the whole 'vibe' thing and believe it's real.
Whatever you do, don't go to an older guy who will just take advantage of you. That is bad news.
2007-02-27 16:41:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ezra W 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I was in you situation once and i a couple of friends over when my parents where out and i made sure we all got drunk including myself then i offered to put a sexy movie on and we all had fun and because we were all friends it was never mentioned again . and we are all still friends
2007-03-04 19:44:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
if you give it some time and thought you will know what your sexuality is w/o having to sleep with someone.
2007-02-27 16:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
my first sexual experiences did not confirm that I was gay, in fact, they just brought up new levels of guilt and questioning... COnnecting emotionally with someone you trust and talking through your questions and concerns will help you much much more, as well as making your first sexual experiences much more pleasurable.. whoever they may be with... be safe... be good to yourself...
2007-03-04 13:33:15 · answer #8 · answered by tomi27410 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
just ask the person that you think that you are attracted to
2007-03-06 21:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with lachrymose lou
2007-02-27 17:11:48 · answer #10 · answered by Chestermane 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
JUST SIT ON A BANANA AND SKIP THE GUY, YOU WILL KNOW SHORTLY AFTER THAT!!
2007-03-07 07:28:44 · answer #11 · answered by Billie R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋