2007-02-27 08:28:11 · 12 answers · asked by kat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's tough. I think you should leave him if you're not happy. Never stay together "for the kids." Kids are extremely perceptive and will pick up on the misery and lack of love in the household. Maybe, you can go to counseling. Have you tried that? I hope it works out for you.
2007-02-27 08:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by mspidey2007 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I have been married for 6 years. I think the first thing you should both do is talk about why you are no longer happy. He may not realize...guys are goofy that way....Try couples counseling and maybe even one on one counseling. If after trying everything they mention, then at least years later you can look back and clearly know it was not meant to be. After having a child with him, he will always be in your life. It is best to end it on friendly terms, knowing all was tried to save the marriage first. Good Luck.
2007-02-27 08:36:30 · answer #2 · answered by amykaye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was told never stay in a relationship for the children. You take the baby and leave if he wants a family he will fight for it. If not you know what kind of guy he really is. It will be hard but it will be worth it rather than waste time.
Story- My aunt got pregnant left the man she was with and had my cousin, two weeks after giving birth she meet a great man and they have been married for more than 10 years now, and that baby my aunt had is HIS baby and no one can tell him different.
2007-02-27 09:40:06 · answer #3 · answered by ERICKSMAMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how did you get pregnant, an air bubble broke on your lap.and got you preggy.you should be happy.put babies make marriages stronger,not,they are all work less sleep,for both,and you ask what should i DO. DO WHAT YOU WOULD DO IF YOU WHERE NOT WITH CHILD,simple.if you really want to leave ,just leave....your body and mind are affected by this situation...IF YOU ARE NOT HAPPY,DO YOU KNOW WHY THAT IS THE ANSWER.....HOW DO YOU EXPECT ANYONE TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION
2007-02-27 08:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by har 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay, have your baby with your husband, and work on your marriage. You have not put enough effort into it, obviously. Things can't be "awful" if you are having sex, anyway. Seek counselling, talk things out, etc. - your child deserves a happy home with two parents who love him or her, and are willing to not be selfish to give the child security and stability.
2007-02-27 08:46:40 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the answer that you want could have several questions to come to an correct answer. (1) do you love him? (2)has he been hitting you? (3) do you two argure all the time? (4) both of your ages?/if married before either age 24 could be too early -inmature.(5) if you two do not and have not been going to like an resturant/movies/ sports together. if most of answers of are yes then it would be better for you and your unborn child to leave this marriage then leave before it is too late.
2007-02-27 08:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by larry r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should seek counseling, try to talk to him about what it is that is making you unhappy.
I did that last night, I was blaming him for not be caring and intimate enough. He was just scared that he would hurt the baby after we talk things thru we each felt better.
Above all think about your child, do you want him/her to grow up in a hostile environment.
2007-02-27 08:40:26 · answer #7 · answered by hayde_kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get therapy
you are having a baby- make this a happy time
2007-02-27 08:34:25 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it and have a place to stay,continue with your plans.Being pregnant won't change you feelings fir him
2007-02-27 08:45:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
trust your heart, but if your heart says go, make sure you have stability then go
2007-02-27 08:57:24 · answer #10 · answered by mommy to be2124 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋