I think my fiancee has left me what do you think?

Question

I think my fiancee has left me it all started with a argument i kicked up nasty as could be and said that i dont like her mum because she uses you for money and always wants somthing off you,anyway with that she got up and left the house i put my shoes on and tryed talking to her but she didnt want to listen she storm round her mums i asked when she will be back and she replied 8:30-quater to nine i said promise she said yeah i will be back then i havent seen her and its been hours i cant ring she left her phone and her mum picked it up once and wont answer now wat do you think plz help

Answer 1

She's angry. But you should know her well enough, if she's your fiancee, to know how she reacts when angry. Is she the kind of person who would dump a serious relationship over one argument? (Or is this not really one argument, but a continuing problem?) Or is she serious enough about you that she will come back in the morning? And if she is still angry, what will you be prepared to say to apologize?

Answer 2

Obviously she is very attached to her mother, and probably went directly to her to tell the whole thing.

So, if you said this, you must have a reason.

If you don’t have a reason, your only option is to ask for forgiveness, say that you are the biggest idiot on earth, ask her mom for forgiveness, and see if your g/f accepts it, and also her mom. Otherwise, start dating other people, as you are officially single.

But if you have a reason, you have to talk to your g/f later when she is calm and make her stay calm. If she is obsessed with her mom, you might not be able to change her, and then you would have to decide if she is the right woman for you or not. I personally would leave if that is the case.

And if you are lucky and she actually listens to you, then explain why you think her mom do whatever you said, and apologize still for saying it but that you do think she is doing it and you don’t agree with it. Hopefully she will think about it and will not be mad anymore at you. Just make sure to assure her you don’t want to fight her or her mother, and don’t want her to fight her mother either. You just don’t agree with the way she is, that’s all. And it gets you sometimes mad, as you don’t like other to take advantage of her, not even her own mother.

Good luck.

Answer 3

Sounds like shes ticked off! Just take a deep breath and chill out. You will talk to her again.

Answer 4

This doesn't mean that she's gone for good maybe she just needed time to herself to see if this is what she really wants and after her cool off period maybe she'll come back. I hope that's how it works out for you but just let her have that time. Good Luck!

Answer 5

if she hasn't left you, you should leave her. Truth hurts and you were forcing her to face the truth.