I have just recently moved back to ma maws..i was staying with ma fiance but it was hell arguing constantly an i was so depressed all the time..now ionly see him at the weekends an i feel even more depressed..how can i work this one out?? do you think we will ever be able to live together..i love him so much an wanna be with him so much..but if igo back i can see ma family disowning me and we will probs end up breaking up eventually..plz help
2007-02-27 08:13:18 · 7 answers · asked by claire4john 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i completely understand what ur going through......i imagined while living together that u argued over pretty stupid things, however that probably wont change until u both learn to accept the differences between the two of u. Now that u moved out and cant see him except weekends will be hard, but u oviously did it for a reason so just let things end up how the end up if your meant to be, u will find a way to make it work
2007-02-27 08:20:44 · answer #1 · answered by vbolden88 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your b/f is 36....and you are 17 your family is right to be upset! he is 19 years older than you, not only is this illegal in most states, it sounds to me that your relationship with him is unhealthy if you are constantly arguing and you are depressed and if you think that you will break anyways why prolong it. i think that any 36 year old who would be with a 17 year old is a pervert and belongs in jail!! you are so young dint throw your life away on someone who make you feel depressed....please believe me i am speaking from experience love is not supposed to make you feel that way you should feel happy!!
2007-02-27 16:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by missbellacherie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone to date closer to you're own age. Trust me I know from experience you guys have way less in commen then you think. And if he was a decent man he would know he shouldn't be dating a 17 year old.
2007-02-27 16:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by pyxie_grl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No brainer here. He's way too old for you, if you are disowned by your family, what will you do, where will you go?
Finish school, get a job, and find someone closer to your own age.
2007-02-27 16:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell is this 36 year old man dating a 17 year old girl. Your bf is a sicko and you need to get rid of his ***..
2007-02-27 16:23:54 · answer #5 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on there is a big diffrence in age and he is not making you happy. there is so much out to do. like you said it is all arguing why would you want to be with some one who could be your father. Listen to your family they want the best for you
2007-02-27 16:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by chia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop the old pervert!
get into school, and find a LIFE!
stop dating me older than your dad!
2007-02-27 16:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋