I'm 33 weeks pregnant, and lately my fiance has been driving me nuts, everytime he says something I just want him to shut up. I don't seem to have any sexual feelings toward him or anything anymore, and I'm just wondering if it's the pregnancy or if I should rethink being with him.
2007-02-27 08:06:51 · 20 answers · asked by TooYoung4This 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It's the pregnancy hormones talking. You've got a baby on the way. For goodness sakes-- go ahead and get married. Don't play the "fiance" game. Just DO it. You AND your baby need the legal protection that marriage will afford. Take a long lunch hour and do it at the courthouse. You can always have the BIG ceremony later. (My husband and I plan on that...one day...of course, we've already been married in a civil ceremony for 23 years). Don't put it off.
2007-02-27 08:10:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal for you to feel edgy. As your hormones rocket through the roof, you're bound to have a shorter fuse. However, I would say that now is NOT the time to be rethinking your relationship. It's not very responsible to get pregnant and then decide you just don't like the guy that much. Instead of considering breaking up, how about taking some time to think about what IS good about him. Write those things down. Ponder them often so that your feelings toward him are positive. It's really common to be on edge and irritable during pregnancy.
2007-02-27 16:11:37 · answer #2 · answered by Susan B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the same this (32 weeks) but its not just my fiancee... its my mother as well... and at times my kids as well!
In most woman, the pretty much loose their sex drive, especially after about 25 weeks..
Wait and see how you go after you have the baby. You could be totally right, and it may not be the hormones... But its better to wait and see! You will know within a few weeks of having the baby
Good Luck!
2007-02-27 16:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is totally normal, you'll suprise yourself with the crazy thoughts that will pop up in your head during pregnancy. i seriously contemplated throwing heavy blunt objects at my old man's face on a daily basis. your hormones are really out of whack right now, and that's also causing your lack of sexual feelings. hang in there, you've just got a few more weeks to go!
2007-02-27 16:16:28 · answer #4 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is normal. it was like that with a few people. everything they did annoyed me beyond all belief!!!! its just the hormones, dont worry. but don't rethink being with him, a lot is going on in your life right now, and he will accept this, but also wait until afterwards to think about things. because the hormones are probably causing you to think these things!! so dont worry it is normal!!
2007-02-27 16:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by ricleigh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it could just be your hormones going crazy...and the lack of sexual feelings are totally normal also.
2007-02-27 16:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm 29 weeks and very irritable towards my husband. I think it's just the pregnancy.
Wait until your not pregnant and see if things change...
2007-02-27 16:09:45 · answer #7 · answered by *Just Married* 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hello too young4this it has to do with the build up of your hormones dear it should be better on after your baby is born but good luck in the mean time
2007-02-27 16:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by haroldgardner62002006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um..
well i have never been pregnan and dont plan on it for a nother quite some time but when my mom wa spregnant she had rele rele weird hormone swings
if she read a sad book and it rele wasnt that sad she started crying hystericallyy
i kno it sounds weird but its true...
dont rethink it...
well im not always rite
2007-02-27 16:11:39 · answer #9 · answered by ♥babie♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hormones are all out of whack and youre re-thinking how a baby will affect your relationship....is it possible youre fearful of his parenting abilities or if he will handle this right? sexual tension is normal....your chemicals are all odd....they change with each trimester. you are also possibly uncomfy wiht your own body changes and maybe you need to tell him of your feelings and that you have more needs for him doing this or that. I think its completely normal.
2007-02-27 16:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by tryinthis2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋