Do you think?

Question

do you think I'm gay? i had sex with a girl and a boy but I like the girl sex better.the boy one was so boring

Answer 1

I think u should do whatever you want

Answer 2

Screw labels! There is no reason you should feel that you have to label your sexuality. Secondly, I don't find it hard to believe that you enjoyed sex better with a female than with a male for several reasons: a female is going to understand the female anatomy A LOT better than any guy, and is therefore more sensitive to what feels good. A guy on the other hand, especially an inexperienced one, won't have the same understanding on a female's pleasure. From firsthand experience, I have had a lot of boring sex with guys, but now I am with one that has an understanding of women and we can create really great lovemaking sessions. So, all in all, it depends on the person, not their gender.

Answer 3

You left out the crucial piece of information needed to correctly answer this question: Age demography! Please let me explain. Most guys need to "learn" literally and figuratively before they can become better lovers because they only understand the male anatomy, hence how come they know how to please themselves easily! Gals on the other hand, pretty much already know what they like and where they like their sexual pleasures to be derived from on their bodies. No, you didn't get lucky when you slept with your girlfriend. She already knew what to do because she'd already been there and found it was good for her so she shared the love so to speak. As for the guy, well, do him a favor and get him the book "How To Give Her Absolute Pleasure". Sorry, I can't remember the authors name, yet it's a very well written and informative book! Personally though, I would venture as to say you may have some Bi-sexual tendancies! Enjoy!

Answer 4

As far as I know, you can't ask the Yahoo community whether or not you are gay, straight, or bisexual because these are definite states of being. It should not be left up to some guy from Nebraska named monkeybuns! You have to come to the conclusion yourself. It is not something that you decide because you are either one or the other. If you are unsure right now it is probably because you are young (at least you sound young). So my advice to you is not to stress yourself over this. Eventually, and naturally, you will come to your own conclusion. Be patient with yourself. Trust your own feelings. Your answer will come to you. Good luck.

Answer 5

Labelling yourself may not be the answer. Keep doing what feels good to you. If you feel you identify sexually/ emotionally with a particular gender then maybe you might consider youself to be gay/lesbian. However, you sound as if you're just exploring your sexuality - have fun.

Answer 6

Have fun, try more sex with whomever. The thing is, women know what to do to women better than men. You might want to try sex with a man, Ha. Peace

Answer 7

Don't base your lifestyle strictly on sex. Maybe the girl was just better at it. Follow your emotions and explore the person for whom you have more emotional feelings towards.

Answer 8

I can't answer that until you talk about falling in love with someone. I know it's called SEXual orientation, but it's really about relationships, not just the physical act of sex.

Answer 9

What do I care? What do you care? As long as what you got up to with both was consensual (and dare I say legal) then I hope you continue to find enjoyment with whichever of the genders appeals (even if it turns out to be both).

Answer 10

It's totally irrelevant what anyone else thinks. It's your body and your emotions. You may be heterosexual and just experimenting. You may be bisexual, liking emotional and physical relationships with both genders. You may be homosexual, prefering relationships with your own gender.

Answer 11

well do you think you are your the only one who can answer that but but about 99% of the people who answer will prolly say yes but i dont think it makes you gay maybe the just guy sucked?