Would you?
2007-02-27 07:52:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
No. If the person I love truly loves me, my health would be a priority over 'being turned on.' If being turned on is all thats important to the person I'm with, I dont need them.
2007-02-27 07:56:31 · answer #1 · answered by tmills883 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Within limits. I think it's important for a person to feel sexy, and at a certain point, your own concept of what is sexy in terms of your personal weight is going to differ from your lover's. If you feel you're ugly and fat, the sex, while great for him or her, because you're the weight they like, still won't be good for you. And of course, I'd want to be healthy, because a relationship jeopardized by diabetes, heart disease, etc., isn't good, but fraught with worry.
I would definitely take the opportunity to indulge a little more and not worry so much about weight if I had a lover who liked the extra pounds, though!
2007-02-27 16:06:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they really loved you, they wouldn't care how you looked.
There's a book about this, too, but love doesn't mean you should change how you look to make the person happy.
XD
and the whole "turning on" thing, just get porn.
lol.
I'm just kidding, but just find something else that will make him/her happy without affecting how you are or what you look like, work with what you've got.
2007-02-27 15:57:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would. I would do *anything* for the woman I loved if she asked me... gain weight, lose weight, change my hairstyle, change how I dressed... when I'm in love I totally throw myself into it.
I guess you could say I'm a sucker for love >:)
2007-02-27 17:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Rissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as long as it wasnt soo much it was unhealthy probably - I mean hey if I can find someone who is OK w the occasional pizza/wing and ice cream binge sign me up!
2007-02-27 15:57:30 · answer #5 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they really loved you in return, they won't want you to do something so unhealthy to yourself.
2007-02-27 15:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by gotanmp3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. She is the only person that matters to me.
2007-02-27 15:56:46 · answer #7 · answered by raynebow_dlva 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Only middle-aged spread as we grew old together - not specifically to please them.
2007-02-27 16:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋