im 15 and pegnant wut should i do????!?!?

Question

the guy that im preg by just broke up with me!! help im 3 months along

Answer 1

omg I just found out today I am pregnent to. I am also 15. I mean I don't really know what to do either I am sh**ing myself about tellin my parents and stuff only my friend knows good luck x

Answer 2

Well I am just basically going to tell you what almost everyone else has already said...

You HAVE to talk to your parents! They may not accept it at first, but you need to allow them time to absorb the facts. You've probably spent weeks trying to accept your situation - allow them the same courtesy. Hiding your pregnancy is only going to make things harder for you, and will not help you out in the long run.

Also, please go see a doctor ASAP. There can be complications with some pregnancies, and you need to make sure that both you and baby are healthy!

Since you are only 15 (and I am assuming the father is around the same age), I don't know if you have the tell him right away. I think I would deal with your parents first and once you gain their support go talk to him. That way if he decides to be unreasonable (which there is a good chance he will be) you will have your parents to back you up.

I do not agree with people posting and saying that you should have taken precautions, etc. and I would ignore them. There is no point dwelling on what you should or shouldn't have done, instead look to the future and do what's best for you and your baby :)

If you do not feel like you are fit to become a mother, please look into adoption, and not abortion. I can't tell you what to do, but as someone who is pregnant with an unplanned baby, I can tell you that although I thought about abortion in the beginning, I'm now 8 months along and couldn't imagine hurting my baby!

Answer 3

You need to talk to some-one about this, If you feel you cannot talk to your parents then some-one you can trust. You need to make the decision what is right for you not any one else. I found out i was preganant not so long ago which was a real shock as i was on the pill at the time, but i had to think about what kind of life the baby would have if i was to have it, I had just started university and having would have ment that i wouldnt only be messing up the babies life being unable to support it but my own as i wouldnt get my qualifications i needed and reach my goals in life, and i had to make the hardest decision i had to ever make to abort the baby, it wasnt murder, it was the best thing to do at the time. Every ones views is different on the matter and its only you that can decide what the best thing for you to do.
I found that the nurses and councilers at the family planning clinics were a great support, so may be you can talk to them if you feel like there is no one else.
What ever you decide to do i hope it all turns out ok for you. Good look.

Answer 4

Dont Panic Sweetie.. Take A Breath And See Where You Stand.. Ask Youself Am I Ready For A Child?.. If So Then Talk To Yourr Parents And Get All The Help You Can ..If Not Exsplain To Your Parents That You Made A Mistake And Hopefuli They Will Be There For You ,,x
Hope That Hellpd .. All My Love And Luck x

Answer 5

first forget about him.
You are in an unfortunate situation and now you have got to start making adult decisions.
You need to realize first and foremost that the baby you are carrying is now the MOST important thing in your life and nothing else matters if he/she isn't taken care of properly. Every decision you make from here on out should only be about the best thing for the baby.
You need to work your hiney off trying to get out of school, a drop out teen mother is just asking for more problems down the road.
You need to be the woman you want your child to look up to, not resent. Being a mother is HARD, being a teen mother is even more so. Prepare yourself for a long life of selflessness. No more eating out, expensive clothing, or partying with friends.
You are the best one to take care of your child, forget the man. When the baby is born sue for support make him hold up his end of the bargain, you need all the help you can get.
Its going to be rough, but if you are strong you can do it.

Answer 6

First of all forget about the loser. Secondly tell your parents. Third do not let anyone pressure you one way or the other as far as what to do with the baby. If you pray and listen to what you believe in your heart is the best thing to do. Believe me everything in the end will be ok. I had a baby when I was 18 and now I am 31 and I did what I knew was right in my heart and everything has been fine every since.

Answer 7

Please put your baby up for adoption - you are much too young to care for a baby on your own. Do not abort it - that is murder, no matter what anyone says (the fetus is alive from the moment of conception). You should definitely talk to your parents if you have not already - sit them down and have an honest conversation, and if they are the type who tend to get mad about this stuff, remind them you were the responsible one who told them, rather than sneaking off and having an abortion behind their backs. The next several months will be difficult for you, but remember, it is for your baby's sake.

Answer 8

I'm in your situation, too, except I'm 25 weeks.

First, see a doctor. Make sure the baby is healthy, make sure that you're healthy. You don't have to decide between adoption and motherhood yet, but you do have to decide if you want to have an abortion. You're legally allowed to abort up until 20 weeks. Please know this - abortion is murder. Not only does it take your unborn child's life, abortion also makes it more difficult to get pregnant later in life, and may cause miscarriages.

Your parents should know that you're pregnant. You can ask for child support from your ex-boyfriend. I'm always available if you need to talk - I'm at [e-mail].

Best wishes!

Answer 9

you made a decision and this is the outcome all u can do now is be strong.dont panic because that isnt gonna help your 3months into your new life be happy and stay in school because now u need to think in the future u wanna give your kid.your not in this alone there are many clinics and people who can help you medically,physiaclly and emotionally dont feel alone because your not!

gud luck 2u n ur pregnancy
_jasmin

Answer 10

u shud definatly tel ur parents but wen u feel ready and possible take sum support. c if the father wud like to be involved consider all ur options but please do not be pushed into anything by anyone you must make up ur own mind.if you wish to listn to other people thats good but as I sed dont b pushed into anything it must be your decision and its ur body and ur baby.as also sed by other go and see a docter if u havent u need to have a 3 month scan which is important to check everything is ok.Good luck and I will keep you in my thoughts.God bless.