What do you do with a Brother that iscausing problems in your marriage?

Question

Ok i asked a week ago how to deal with a husband that is gone all the time. Now i am going to ask on how to deal with a brother that si causing problems with your marriage. My brother and my husband are gone away to work all week long. They room together which I thought was going to be a good thing for them. But last night i get this call and my husband is tellingme that iam out running around on him because of what my brother has told him. But ia m not Iam at home all day taking care of his kids. I understand that he is going toworry about things while he is gone. BUt I hear my brother in the back ground telling him that he can get my husband laid in a hour and they can have all kinds of hoes up there to party with them. I cant beleive that my brother would hate me that much to say them things about me. I am not running around on him at all. i am at home pregnant and taking care of his kids. Taking care of our home. How do i deal with this? What do i say to my husband? HELP ME

Answer 1

I think that you need to get the brother by himself and just ask him one question. Does he want you to divorce your husband? After he answers that you will have the knowledge to take the next step. If he is a snotty little twerp and says yes, you can tell you husband to break off all ties with him or you will file for divorce. If he says that he was just joking, tell him that you don't understand that kind of humor and from this moment on it stops. He can try his hand at knock, knock, jokes! After this talk is over then it's your husband turn. If his schedule is too hectic then use it against him. Schedule some time! If it has to be days, weeks or a month (no more) then so be it. but schedule it so no one else gets this time. At least one hour, but really not more. If he says no, you will then know that it's over. File and go with the premise he is cheating on you!

Answer 2

It's time you and your husband had a long talk. Why is he so insecure? Your brother is an ***. You need to confront him too. Ask him in front of your husband where he's getting all this information. Tell him to prove it to both you and your husband. I would also tell him to man up and stop acting like a high school girl. After this is straighten out, your husband needs to stop working with your brother and certainly not room with him. Good luck.

Answer 3

What happened to the old saying"Blood is thicker than Water". does your Brother Love's you because you are his Sister, or does he Love's his Brother-in-Law more than his own Kin? If I were you I would have had a good talking to, to my Brother, and asked him what is he trying to prove when he is telling his brother-in- Law, pure lies about you. Why is he trying to break up your Marriage, when you both have kids of your own, can he have the decency, to mind his own business, if your Husband believes what he is saying about you, my guess is because he really wants to believe it is true, so he can do whatever he please where he is. You better try and repair the relationship you had with your Husband before it is too late for you both. Good Luck and I hope that it is not too late to do something about it.

Answer 4

It sounds like your brothers a Big A##hole. Tell your brother to stay out your business and quit telling your husband lies about you or you dis-own him and never speak to him again. And if your husband believes you and not him, then he needs to tell your brother to find someplace else to stay. It sounds like your brother is just wanting to go out and party and he's trying to drag your husband down with him, most single guys do, they have no respect for marriage. Keep your distance from your brother, it sounds like he's trouble! Family is important, but your husband is more important, and your future with him!

Answer 5

you need to have a talk with your brother he's family and he should respect you and not cause problems for you and your husband and you don't need your brother causing you stress and your pregnant i believe your a good wife and mother you need to ask your brother why is he telling your husband stories my brother's never did that

Answer 6

maybe you're brother is secretly gay, in love with your husband, wants you guys broken up because he wants your husband for himself