Have u ever been bullied before or is it just me.
There is a girl in my school and she keeps telling me that i am ugly and she told me to change myself but i don't want to shes the only one that thinks i'm ugly. Some of my friends told me shes jelous of me. Maybe i want to change my self but my friends told me don't because she is giving me silly advice to high light my hairl gold but it won't suit me she wants to mess up my looks what shall i do please help thank -you
2007-02-27 07:38:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Shall i ignore her
2007-02-27 07:41:24 · update #1
I've tryed to ignore her for 2 years now and she still don't stop
2007-02-27 07:42:42 · update #2
sounds to me like she has a thing for you, or why would she be using so much energy for you. i would just ignore her and be yourself, you shouldn't try to change like that for anyone. only yourself. tell her to get a life.....
2007-03-07 02:37:44 · answer #1 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was bullied for 5 years at my senior school. Although my bullying was a bit worse than that. I used to get beat up and once someone shoved a broken bottle into the palm of my hand an it bled. I couldnt play the piano for nearly 2 weeks. Do not these people get to you. Just ignore them, hopefully they will get fed up. Have you considered telling someone about it? Don't change yourself because someone says so. Be who you want to be and dont let anyone stop you from doing that. Stay strong, stick with your friends and remember they can not hurt you if you dont let them. Be proud of who you are and never let anyone make you into someone you dont want to be. Good luck with this and i hope my advice has helped.
2007-03-07 01:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk past her like she is not there. You are obviously giving her a chance to bully you. Dont give her the chance. As soon as you see her coming your way walk in another direction.
Or you can just humor her and tell her that you will take her advice into consideration. If she asks you why you didnt take her advice yet just tell her you are still thinking about it. Or you didnt get a chance to. Just be creative with good answers. She will get the message, and stop after a while.
2007-03-07 06:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try and ignore her or you can tell someone - she should not be able to do this to you - Everyone is beautiful in there own way as long as you know that and you show it dont bother you then what she says dont matter- The only question is do you care what she thinks cause for it to hurt you need to care what she thinks if you get what i mean
2007-03-06 21:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by Curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has faced off with a bully at one time or another in their lives. Ask this girl? How would you like if someone called her ugly everyday?
Most likely she has low self esteem and want to attack yours. She would not like to have someone to call her ugly. Why listen to her tell her to go away if she does not direct her to the principal's office I am quite sure he/she would find something to this bully to do. Just stand up to her.
2007-03-05 16:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by wheninrome2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, she just envies you, just outsmart her, tell her thanks for calling you ugly, it helps you build a better self esteem, (you dont have to believe what she says because thats not what you are) just outsmart her by accepting whatever she calls you, you know why this works because when you, on purpose, take what bullies bother you with, they realize it, and get tired of bullying you, or get bored from bullying you, they just forget about the whole thing and stop.
2007-03-07 06:01:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has something to say about someone at some point.
Best thing is not to respond back and lower yourself to her level.
Do for you what best suits you. As long as your happy with your look that should be all that matters.
As everyone stated bullying is alack of self esteem. DO NOT LET YOUR BULLY CHANGE YOUR PRIDE IN YOURSELF.
2007-03-06 04:21:40 · answer #7 · answered by rose s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not just ask this person straight out? Anyone who bullies others are suffering from low self esteem and do it to feel better about themselves. By confronting her you will show her that you're above her immature ways and she'll probably stop. Good luck.
2007-03-07 05:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by 2Beagles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the view point of a person 72 years old.
Next time, when she confronts you, you may try replying like this.
"While you find me ugly, I find you are the most beautiful person I have ever met. Nature has willed it this way because unless persons like me are present on this earth, how will you stand out in the crowd."
'Anyway, I am comfortable as I am now. Thanks".
2007-03-07 00:57:18 · answer #9 · answered by subasu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Telling you that your ugly it not too great.
Maybe you should go for the adivice
Try something strange.
Otherwise be very polite and clear and direct
and tell her (politely now!) that you dont' like being told what to do with your hair and stuf - but you respect her own ideas.
2007-02-27 07:44:26 · answer #10 · answered by Appel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her if possible. Don't change your looks for anyone but yourself.
Tell her you appreciate her advice and will think about it. Smile, and walk away. She's rude to even bring it up to you.
2007-02-27 07:43:11 · answer #11 · answered by jtaylor1993 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋